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She Asked For A Facial!
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She Asked For A Facial! Ahhhh....The Lovely Siren! Her desire for the taste of women flesh remains unabated. And during the course of looking to satisfy that desire, we look { and actually Read! } a LOT of profiles. Lately, during all of that reading, we've come to notice a tendency which we thought we'd comment on. Would the expression, "Must have a Face Pic on First Contact or you will be Blocked" ( or a derivative, thereof ) sound familiar to those of you who also enjoy reading profiles as a pastime? We've even seen things like, " Must be Full-Facial, NO shadows, NO hats, NO sunglasses and a Close-Up to be considered" amended to that original request. Seems a little demanding..... Now, once again, don't get us wrong, we fully support the right of anyone on here to set up their profile in that manner that best suits themselves. You can ask that all prospective applicants attach a picture of yourself(s) in Green underwear, under a cloudy sky, with a in the background, standing in front of The Eiffel Tower if you so choose, and get no complaint from us. BUT.... Unless our view of the number of potential playmates for each and every demographic around here is wildly askew, we believe that looking for that Full-Faced Pic, or The Eiffel Tower snapshot will radically limit your number of replies. ( I sure wish we'd have had some Green Underwear with us the last time we were in Paris...) Because......some of us require discretion. We think it's actually a vast percentage of us, but that clearly reflects our own bias in this regard. While we admit { and envy } that there are also some numbers of people in "The Lifestyle" who couldn't care less about who knows what they do after hours; we believe that, if not a Majority, at least an equal number are still forced by their circumstances to maintain a level of prudence insofar as posting a face pic online might go. And while we might inwardly be remorseful that such is the case, we still MUST consider: employment, friends, family, and our Other pastimes in decisions regarding this one. Not everyone would understand our desire to play with others than our significant. And given that fact, repercussions could occur, simply by hitting "send" to the wrong place. In today's day and age, one simply HAS to make thoughtful choices when it comes to discretionary matters. We KNOW that there are fake profiles out there, we Know that there are pic-collectors masquerading as Couples or Females, we Know that people have had their "hobby" made public in social media, we know that the online world is not always a happy place... Which is why we have Absolutely no problem actually Showing our faces off in person, over a coffee, or a drink, or even dinner, if the online rapport we always seek to establish warrants it. Our faces, Live and In-Person, are a manageable commodity, and we like to keep it that way. So, we sadly have to pass by those profiles that make the Facial demand, and it seems likely that several others of our contemporaries must be doing so as well. It seems to us that there are only so many people that each of us can appeal to within the usual parameters of sharing sheets. Some of us may be SO wonderful that they can knowingly limit those numbers and still be content with their results. It might be reasonable for them to make such insistence's. But, while such a stipulation Could well mean that the results of any search with such a demand will bear only fruit of a tasty variety, it might also mean that you eat vegetables as a diet for a long time as well. We'll settle for a larger plate, with a wider variety, and put the flavors we don't like off to the side, like we did when we were ... 
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Ms kmskatr, We find what you said neither vain nor bitchy, but we do think it delineates the divide we spoke of. You happily post your face online, so clearly discretion is not as much of a consideration for you as it might be for others. As such, requesting a quid pro quo doesn't seem unreasonable. However, where we might disagree, is in the matter of getting to know potential playmates. In our case, and we do recognize we're sometimes outside the norm, we Never regret finding out about new people. For us, that's both part of the process, and part of the fun. If things don't work out between these people and ourselves in the bedroom, then we're no further behind, and have perhaps learned a little bit more about ourselves and our likes and dislikes. Ahhh...it's the differences between us all that keep the World spinning.
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I am perfectly willing to share a face pic, but not with the very first message. If there is some common interest and a little conversation I will share a face pic. With me you get one or the other, a naked body or a face picture. You will never get a naked body with my face unless we have met and we are naked together. It's really simple, I am not going to risk my job or reputation because some profile demands it. To those people with all the special rules and requirements " have fun playing by yourself " your simply not as special as you think you are!
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Obligatory first comment to allow ourselves to be noticed Nice Job Siren & Prime!! 
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