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Encounter Etiquette ( Or... May I See Your Breasts,... PLEASE?...)
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Encounter Etiquette ( Or... May I See Your Breasts,... PLEASE?...) Well....We have an exciting weekend planned, we're meeting up with a couple who we've been chatting with for a bit, our first face to face with them. As those of you who've read ANYthing posted by us on here might surmise, we're not heading out to play, but rather, just a coffee meet, at a local Starbucks actually. { Supporting the Corporate Monster, even when trying to get lucky...} In our case, we are adamant that there must be a connection before play, so a meeting like this is mandatory for our needs. As always with these sorts of things, we're quite excited by the prospect of saying hello to new friends, and are of course, a little bit anxious over the circumstances. { Ummm....we PRESUME everyone gets at least a little anxious about a new meeting...} Anticipation is the BEST of aphrodisiacs, even when served with a vanilla topping. But here's the thing...just what is the accepted protocol for a meeting such as this? As people who tend to over-analyze just about every circumstance in our lives,{ Hey! We blog! Couldn't you tell we over-think things?? } we ARE comfortable with the way we've done things in the past, but remain curious as to how others carry out these rather important stepping stones towards sensual sybaritism. For instance...show up early to get ourselves comfortable, or later in order to see what's what? Kiss on the cheek for the initial greeting, or handshake? Hugs all around, or aloof hello's. Sit both of us to one side of the table, or mix up the couples randomly? Chatter on about vanilla subjects, or get down and dirty immediately? Have a set departure time in one's head, or let the conversation dictate the longevity? Now, we ARE aware that all of this is probably determined on a case by case basis,as no two meetings have ever gone the same for us, and probably never will. In fact, we've pretty much done the same thing every time we've gotten together with any new prospective playmates, and are very pleased with the results of those actions so far. This is more of a curiosity indulgence than an advice request.{ Though...if we were to see something that sounded really cool, we would probably pinch it for our own use...} We've just always wondered about the circumstances of the other people here on Senior Sizzle, and other sex sites. Swingers are a different breed, after all, with their own peculiarities. Are most of them so over-powerfully confident, that none of this is really a concern? Are they all SO experienced in these sorts of things that they no longer feel any of the nervousness that we do? Do any of them still feel the same fluttery feelings about such meetings as us, or are we the exceptions? Do they have these quasi-vanilla meets at all,or do most just jump into the sack and have done with it...? What about appearances? For our part, we don't spend a ton of time trying to gussy ourselves up for these rendezvous'. We prefer a "what you see, is what you get " attitude. Either you like us as we are, or you don't like us at all....Ok, we'll shave, comb our hair, and try to look presentable, but only insofar as we would for any public outing. We prefer to let our new friends see the "real" us, warts and all. { NO, we don't really have warts..a few blemishes maybe, but no warts! } But again, curiosity begs the question, what's everyone else doing? Fresh haircut? New makeup? Wardrobe designed to thrill, or is subtlety the word? Does ANYone still polish their shoes??? Can it end up like the dance you attend in your best new duds, while everyone else is in jeans and t-shirts? Like all things "Lifestyle", we're bemused by the intricacies of these dynamics, and are always quizzical about how other folk are dealing with the same questions as we are. So please feel free to weigh in on this, we really are intrigued. No matter what your circumstances are, it'll be interesting in the extreme to hear some different points of view. And perhaps we'll find out that WE've been doing it ALL wrong all this time, and need to refresh our roundtable regimen. Don't think so,as we've always wanted to be Just Us, but one never can tell what wisdom is waiting right around the corner at the next blog comment.... |
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