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AGEist?? How Could THAT be??
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AGEist?? How Could THAT be?? Hmmmmm.......We've always tried to keep our profile writeup as open and honest as circumstances will allow, and we've used this blog as a further platform to outline our preferences, but...... There's a little detail that almost makes us wish we'd done what so many folk here on Senior Sizzle have done, and just posted ourselves as a single female, rather than a couple. While we can understand the rationale for that slight duplicity, we've avoided it. We just prefer to receive ONLY contacts from people genuinely interested in a couple, rather than disappointing ( or even angering ) our community of Fun-Seekers, by even implying that we are anything other than what we actually are. While it remains true that the main focus of OUR search is Bisexual Females for Siren to enjoy, we long ago committed to sharing our fun times, even to the point of missing out on potential playmates who might ONLY be interested in one OR the other of us. SO, what's the detail about our couples profile that has us second-guessing our own honesty?? That would be the fact that as a couples profile, we are listed by MY age; 56. I guess because of that, we tend to get a LOT of looks from Ladies and Couples in their early to LATE 60's. And believe ME, we find many of these folk attractive, because people are people, not just numbers, but let's be frank....Siren is a young woman in her 30's. Despite the fact that I am constantly astonished that such a nubile, sensual, lascivious, and delightful,youthful Woman such as herself chose to partner up with a (relatively) old codger like me, it was a personal choice by Siren, NOT a proclivity for older Men, or Women, or Couples. And as previously stated, we don't prejudge people by their age, ( despite what you may NOW think...) but rather by the qualities we can find with the tools we are given. For instance, IF we see a flirt from someone "older" , AND there is only sparse information, and even worse, NO pictures(s) to show us anything to base an opinion upon, what other choice would we have but to presume you are OLD? Because there is old, and there is OLD. For that reason, and since I consider myself to be on the other side of most potential playmates age preferences, We have made the effort to post some recent ( The Kneeling pic is from February 2012, for instance.. ) pictures of myself to illustrate my relative fitness, vis a vis, most men my age. { whoops! better not let this turn into a Prime bragfest!!} The point being, without SOMETHING to go on, the older flirters DO become just their numbers, and that's how you'll ultimately be judged. Having said all of that, we do wish there was some way for Ms. Siren to have HER age posted in a more prominent manner.( You might be surprised how many people compliment her when we're on cam, for looking so good at 56!!  ) Like anyone in this somewhat crazy world of sexual adventure, one generally tends to seek out playmates of similar tastes AND ages, so we'd be untruthful if we didn't say that We'd Like to be viewed by people closer to our own ages, or perhaps by folk somewhere in the middle of the two of us.....( Though we do see Red X's from Lady's between 45/50, rejecting us for "age"; is it me at 56 being too old, or her at 37 being too young??? Whatever... ) We think we're a pretty well put together pair, fit, in shape, and certainly not suffering from any debilitating effects of age, so THAT's what we try to attract as well, and in most cases here on Senior Sizzle, that would be in the younger subset.( And THAT fact would be the basis of a rather long and detailed blog, all on it's own... ) We do look at EVERYone who shows interest in us , however, so it's WHO you are, rather than any one THING about you, that might pique our interest. But if you want to be truly considered as a friend, you can't make your age be the ONE THING that we can see when we go to look at YOUR profile. We'll just consider you too old, and that will be that....So here's to being honest and open, and not judging others by standards you wouldn't expect to use when presenting yourselves to the world. We all want very different things here at Senior Sizzle, and If we all continue to put ourselves forward as who we genuinely are, there should NEVER be even the slightest inkling of bigotry of any sort in the choices we make, including Ageism. Rather it will be as it should be, people making informed choices to play with like-minded individuals, who please them for the aesthetic reasons of their own choosing. Wheew! That kinda tired me out, where's the Geritol??? Prime |
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