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First date sex  

Captainsbabygirl 50F
4328 posts
1/3/2014 6:27 am
First date sex

I recently went out on a date and he asked me what my rule was for having sex on the first date. I told him I don't have a rule about how long before we have sex. So was curious what's your rule?
Yes let's get it on first date or not
No, I want to get to know him more
I usually wait till at least the third date to get my freak on
I wait till the moment is right then I attack
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JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
1/3/2014 6:56 am

I have found sex with strangers to be very unsatisfying. I want to feel a connection with that person before we have sex. So, I try to wait until the third date now. After that, it's whenever we both feel the time is right.


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Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:11 pm:
I agree with the unsatisfying part with strangers.

PDrive66 57M
3985 posts
1/3/2014 7:11 am

I'm one to wait for the moment... whether it's the first or 20th. But it really depends on how well I know them and how we've communicated prior to meeting.


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:13 pm:
The moment is always nice. I'm one for that myself

1NascarMan68 61M
486 posts
1/3/2014 8:51 am

If I took you out to dinner, you'd be lucky to get out of the restaurant unmolested ......lol


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:13 pm:

pleisure4u2 63M
1820 posts
1/3/2014 9:33 am

If there is some chemistry in the moment get it on....enjoy Mike


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:13 pm:

rm_audiodoug17 67M
300 posts
1/3/2014 10:43 am

It is all in the situation and what you want out of it....assume most of us have been drunk enough to have done a one niter....and in this day and age lived to wake up with the thoughts who was that person what possible diseases might I just exposed my self to by sleeping with a complete stranger.....someone I was not really attracted to but they were available at the right time......good sex ,should also have a high mental attraction that develops over a peroid of time, not just the pure animamal level ....and sometimes we have to pass when we find out about the psycho ex or children or parents or all consuming job(I'm guilty here) that can render them as a less than desirable partner....for anything but a fling....I know in my case I'm mid 50's never married but a nice sweet guy and most of my closest friends have always have been females......have always had the problem of turning those friends into lovers once we are friends


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:16 pm:
Yes very hard to turn once they are friends and yes I'm sure a lot of people have done the drunk thing. But sometimes u just have to take that chance.

Negril43 71M
4037 posts
1/3/2014 12:01 pm

Boy the silly rules some folks go by just because they read it on the internet . There we was drinking coffee with their cell phones going off every two minutes . Bring back the old days of shame and regret in the morning .


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:17 pm:
Those one night stands usually have that shame and regret and why they are not that fun.

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
1/3/2014 4:56 pm

No rules..I go by feelings! Sometimes...it is three days...sometimes longer!

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Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:17 pm:
Feelings are very important.

discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
1/4/2014 2:44 am

It depends on the circumstances. My now-wife and I wanted each other from our first chance meeting, but didn't actually get busy until our third date; at that point I spent the night and never left. Several hook-up dates have ended up with sex right away. My evil ex-girlfriend and I were ready for action on the first date, but schedule didn't allow it until the second. And of course sometimes it just doesn't happen, even after several dates.


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:19 pm:
Always good to have that sexual build up.

smartypants2u 53F

1/4/2014 11:17 am

I would like to vote, but you are missing an option of not having a rule. At least that would be the closest to a rule... As the only rule I have, which I make known before hand is that there is no expectations of sex when meeting for the first time.
There has got to be some form of chemistry... If there is no expectations, then if there is no chemistry, everyone is free, and has no regrets afterwards...

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Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:20 pm:
Well not having a rule would make it a yes lets just get it on.

I don't have a rule about when but I usually don't on the first date.

iwant2lickuthere 56M
3537 posts
1/4/2014 3:21 pm

My rule is whenever she wants to.


Captainsbabygirl replies on 1/5/2014 12:20 pm:
Good rule

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