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Kegel exercises for men and women!  

redmustang91 64M
7768 posts
9/7/2007 7:59 am

Last Read:
4/26/2019 7:47 am

Kegel exercises for men and women!


Another important educational post worth rereading, as the sex life you improve is your own!

The PC muscles need strengthening for men and women to have the best sex! A repeat of an earlier blog to remind everyone to kegel regularly!

Kegel exercises serve to tone and strengthen the pubococcygeus or "PC" muscles which form the floor of the pelvis. The health of these muscles plays a vitally important role in sexual arousal and climax, as well as in other aspects of bodily functioning.

Why should men do kegel exercises regularly?

kegel exercises increase the bloodflow to the genital area, and so support sexual arousal mechanisms.

kegel exercises strengthen and tone the muscles that are involved in ejaculation, and so men who Kegel can, if they do some additional work with themselves, gain greater control over the timing of their ejaculations.

kegel exercises prevent incontinence and other problems that are often associated with aging.
Why should women do kegel exercises regularly?

kegel exercises increase the bloodflow to the genital area, and so support sexual arousal mechanisms.

kegel exercises strengthen and tone the muscles of the vaginal canal, and so women who Kegel can, if vaginal stimulation is their choice, and if they do some additional work on themselves, improve their capacity to orgasm by means of vaginal play, in terms of both the intensity and the frequency of their orgasming.

kegel exercises are essential to the treatment of sexual difficulties such as vaginismus and dyspareunia (pain on vaginal intercourse).

kegel exercises prevent incontinence, prolapses, and many other problems of the pelvic floor that are often associated with aging.

kegel exercises strengthen and tone the musculature of the pelvic area in a way that can make vaginal delivery during childbirth easier.
How do I find my PC muscles?

go to the bathroom and sit on the toilet (men, it is also a good idea to sit for this).

in the middle of your stream of urine, stop and start the stream several times. The muscles you use to do this are your PC muscles. At first, you may find that you are also squeezing your anal muscles; as you become experienced with kegel exercises, try to separate out the muscle groups that you are able to exercise by squeezing.
How do I do regular kegel exercises?

now that you have located your PC muscles, you can exercise them while your bladder is completely empty.

first, try squeezing your PC muscles as hard as you can for a count of three seconds. Then let them relax. To begin with, see how many times you can do this before the muscles feel tired.

now figure out a suitable exercise routine just as you would if you were trying to tone and strengthen a different muscle group by going to the gym every other day. For example, suppose you start by being able to do only five strong squeezes; try doing three sets of five once or twice a day for a week, and then try increasing this to three sets of eight strong squeezes.

if you work up to three sets of thirty or more strong squeezes, you are probably healthy enough for most purposes, and need only to maintain this level of fitness by doing these three sets four times a week (instead of once or twice a day).

we also recommend that you experiment by varying the type and timing of the PC squeezing you do as you train these muscles: slow clenches, many quick flutters, and so on. This will make you more familiar with these muscles ‒ notice also when your abdominal muscles or your anal muscles feel like they also want to join in the exercise.

remember, you should try to separate out kegel exercises from anal squeezing. If you are in doubt, go back a refind your PC muscle while urinating.

once you are skilled at kegel exercises, you should be able to do them without anyone else knowing what you are doing... boring meetings at work, tedious lectures at conferences, and other daily events all become opportunities to work quietly on improving your sexual health!

rm_nerdra2000 61F
4 posts
9/8/2007 1:29 pm

This is all very true. It's incredible the difference in sensation when these muscles are used in sex. It makes everything feel so much tighter. Incredible. Read and execute the above. Everyone.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
9/9/2007 12:40 am

Works for me!


LadyLord1 58F

2/28/2009 4:27 pm

Absolutely!

Another good one is to start with your fingers, two for one week, one for another week, then a pen or pencil. (Cause the little finger cannot reach up into the back muscles where the head of your man's cock would be.) Or, (my preference, always food, ha,) say a nice clean small as in thinnish cucumber for one week, then a a nice slim zuccini, and lastly a small thin carrot etc.

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sasnnice 62F

5/3/2011 10:25 am

I often do my kegel exercise but perhaps I should stop....I often find it painful to have sex with someone who is more than average size penis....

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redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
5/7/2011 12:56 pm

Tight is good and you can feel the difference if you are in good and fit shape...


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
1/19/2013 5:35 am

Reality is there whether we notice it or not...


redmustang91 64M
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7/15/2015 6:00 am

Compliments are appreciated. California has a good selection of evolved males I think. Nice to think that smart can be sexy...


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
3/31/2017 2:27 pm

I just want to thank you for writing and having this post pinned.
Every time I go by it, it reminds me to do mine!
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redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
4/4/2017 4:25 am

Good muscle tone is a blessing. Squeeze away....


RI_NakedBarber 54M

4/20/2019 7:41 am

In 2013 I had anal cancer, it's actually the HPV virus that women get, the one you can get a vaccination for these days. Well it turns out I got it. Lot's of men do. Michael Douglas got it in his throat. Anyway, after radiation and chemo when all said and done, I had to learn to be diligent with doing Kegel's. I still do. I think men should because as we get older things loosen up. So men, keep up on those exercises or Depends is in your future.


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