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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

My personal preferences  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
6/25/2013 8:43 am
My personal preferences

i find myself wondering what i find sexy. It actually came to me today when i was driving to the garbage dump. Weird how things can strike you at the oddest times like that. Anyways I started to make a list of stuff that i find sexy. In my head that is. If i am going to start dating and hopefully mating again i need to be aware of what turns me on i think. So here goes. It is a partial list and you all can chime in on it anyway you want.

laughter and a sense of humor This goes without saying and i think laughing in bed is the best thing ever.

a smile that tells me we share something it may be an inside joke, or a story, or even a hatred of some television program but we smile at each other when it happens.

a certain sense of adventure not dive head first into an orgy adventure but try new things and not be afraid of change adventure.

wearing my oversized t-shirt i don't know about you but knowing that she is wearing my shirt to bed and there is nothing else on is fucking hot.

a little color to the skin no fake tan orange stuff here but instead how about a little natural out in the sun. or racial pigmentation if possible. i don't want to date a ghost.

a love of kissing and touching my folks didn't do it and damnit i love it maybe because of that.

those i think are my must haves. those sexy little items that i cant be without. they are all things that have nothing to do with your body and everything to do with who you are. okay i might have stretched that a bit on the skin thing but there you have it. What i find sexy as of june 25, 2013

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/25/2013 10:27 am

 laughter and a sense of humor is an important factor to me, too...
and a partner in crime kind of thingy...insider jokes...and it's only us know it...but at the same time, it's funny...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/25/2013 4:42 pm
    Quoting japaneseass:
    laughter and a sense of humor is an important factor to me, too...
    and a partner in crime kind of thingy...insider jokes...and it's only us know it...but at the same time, it's funny...
partner in crime is great. i do love one of those. considering most of them are sex crimes. hoo ha.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/25/2013 4:44 pm
    Quoting  :
i very well could make an exception for the odd ghostly visitations.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/25/2013 4:45 pm
    Quoting  :
line starts on the left, leave your resume and current list of turn ons and turn offs.


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
6/25/2013 6:25 pm

 hmm..would an irish/scotish ghost be too white skinned?..lol

Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


Vixn_Vella 49F  
14911 posts
6/26/2013 7:13 am

 Yeah, if I can't be my goofy self and laugh with someone, it's so not going to work out


I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/26/2013 4:40 pm
    Quoting stars_light4U:
    hmm..would an irish/scotish ghost be too white skinned?..lol
maybe you are one of the dark skinned ones? lol


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/26/2013 4:41 pm
    Quoting Vixn_Vella:
    Yeah, if I can't be my goofy self and laugh with someone, it's so not going to work out

if you cant laugh and be goofy the relationship is doomed. doomed i tells you. run the hell away. life is too short for that crap.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/28/2013 6:40 pm
    Quoting  :
i am a total sucker for tan lines. something about the contrast does it for me. but hell i grew up when baby oil was considered the go to sun product.


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