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The other woman?
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The other woman? So todays blog is a little serious and hopefully some of you fine readers can give me a little help as well. I have read and people have told me about a thing that i haven't actually participated in. I know in all of my forty years i haven't done this thing and that surprises me too. No it isn't crazy drug fueled orgies, or pissing or crazy bondage with humiliation. No what it is instead is the fact that when you are with someone you fantasize about someone else. So your partner is down there swallowing your sword like no one else and instead of her blonde hair you instead picture the brunette locks of your secretary at work. I have fantasized a lot while rubbing one out. I have plundered neighbours, co workers and porn stars with my dick in my hand. What i have never done is while my dick is being handled by someone else is take them out of the equation and substitute someone else. This is not an algebraic problem to be solved by replacing x with y. This is sex folks. Maybe i am a old fashioned and respectful dude. Maybe i don't have an incredible array of possible partners to slide into the starring role, cause i do. a few of you reside ride on this site. However i do feel that you need to deal with your partner with respect and that means they are the one you are in the sac with. Maybe that why i haven't played with scat either. In case you were guessing that earlier. So help me out here folks. Have you done this with a partner and if so what were the circumstances. Help this poor ignorant man to learn. Thank you very much. |
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My husband and i have a mutual love for a beautiful woman... so i'm pretty sure that's not an issue with Him... He would just verbalize the images He was seeing in His head. As far as for myself, He is MORE than enough for me... and if i am masturbating... it's really a very selfish act and i'm usually thinking about ME while i am  Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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uhm.. yes I have.. and it has nothing to do with respecting or not respecting the ugly old man I'm with..I know I'm with him, and sometimes I have to think about someone else so that the whole thing is somewhat pleasurable. If that makes me a terrible person, then so be it... Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
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My husband and i have a mutual love for a beautiful woman... so i'm pretty sure that's not an issue with Him... He would just verbalize the images He was seeing in His head. As far as for myself, He is MORE than enough for me... and if i am masturbating... it's really a very selfish act and i'm usually thinking about ME while i am
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interesting. nice to know i am not alone in this.
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i have read this so often and heard it talked about like gospel by more than a few sex therapists too. maybe you cheat the person you are with, maybe you cheat yourself. i have never done it and now i am wondering if it is a gender problem maybe. like when your hubbies fat sweaty gut is rubbing up against you, you transport in someone far more suitable.
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I would say my only substitute x for y... was the 2 times I was with a friend instead of the man I want to be with. It was a comparison game and then in thinking about the other man. So I stopped having sex with x, so I can have y and only y, so it ends the substitution. That is my only flirtation with imagining someone else, and I think it will be the last. {=} An empty half of the bed is waiting...{=}
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yes, i fantasize about my fb while my man is pleasuring me. sometimes fantasizing about someone else is necessary
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uhm.. yes I have.. and it has nothing to do with respecting or not respecting the ugly old man I'm with..I know I'm with him, and sometimes I have to think about someone else so that the whole thing is somewhat pleasurable. If that makes me a terrible person, then so be it...
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I would say my only substitute x for y... was the 2 times I was with a friend instead of the man I want to be with. It was a comparison game and then in thinking about the other man. So I stopped having sex with x, so I can have y and only y, so it ends the substitution. That is my only flirtation with imagining someone else, and I think it will be the last.
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now i am interested in wondering if the beautiful woman knows about your love of her. i never could think about me while i am masturbating. i just dont turn myself on that much.  Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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5/13/2013 4:21 pm |
Hi My name is Indi and yes I have pictured others while with a partner! In all seriousness, sometimes we truly just want to pleasure our partner and might not be in the mood but he is. It is an unselfish thing for me. If he is ready to go and I'm not and he's not providing the stimulation I need to get in the mood, I might help myself out a little with some private visual stimulation.
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Any woman We're involved with will always know of my love for a beautiful thick ass... nice big pretty nipples... and a lovely pink pussy with a nice clit.
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Hi My name is Indi and yes I have pictured others while with a partner! In all seriousness, sometimes we truly just want to pleasure our partner and might not be in the mood but he is. It is an unselfish thing for me. If he is ready to go and I'm not and he's not providing the stimulation I need to get in the mood, I might help myself out a little with some private visual stimulation.
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interesting. thanks for sharing that. i like that you stayed with the math thing and i like that there was a damn good reason behind it, not just how bad x was. more like he wasnt y. =) {=} An empty half of the bed is waiting...{=}
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Well, X was bad... lol.... It is why I have decided only Y will do. LOL =)
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i am starting to think that you might just be stealing my thoughts as they seem to jive so much.  You must be one twisted individual then... Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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You must be one twisted individual then...
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I think I did once by accident... the lighting and such made my partner look like someone else I knew but hadn't been intimate with.... so I just kind of segued into thinking it was the strange guy. Of course I never let on! 
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I think I did once by accident... the lighting and such made my partner look like someone else I knew but hadn't been intimate with.... so I just kind of segued into thinking it was the strange guy. Of course I never let on!
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i totally get the racy place concept. I would say that my head is very similar until the clothes come off. then it is all about who i am with and making them very very happy. no need to sigh, i was curious is all.
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poor little miss texas. so hung up and still smitten. it will get better i am sure. hope hubby doesnt get it.
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