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Whoa mule whoa  

spiderj72 51M
5952 posts
4/8/2013 5:53 am
Whoa mule whoa


There are certain times when i believe that the old warner bros. cartoons are really the parental influence in my life. I still cant hear certain pieces of classical music without seeing bugs bunny doing his thing. I still appreciate the manic energy that is daffy and when someone stutters on certain words i hear foghorn leghorn voice instinctively in my head.

I hear todays title words in the voice of yosemite sam. What it applies to is libidos. I find it very hard to have two similar libidos as you age. What i mean by that is that as you relationship matures and you must understand that i am sort of talking about relationship libidos exclusively here is that they are very rarely the same.

I have a friend who is convinced that if females thought about sex as much as guys do then they would have a guy sort of libido. A way of tricking their female libido into wanting more and getting more sex would be through the constant thinking of sex. It is funny because i have seen stats that sort of back this up. I have seen the stats that suggest men think way more about sex than women do. Shit i know that is the case from females in my own life.

What i was going to say earlier and didn't get a chance is that at the beginning of any relationship that both people are totally into the sex thing. Its drop your drawers at the drop of a hat time. Its stay in bed on sundays and fuck each other senseless. Its blow jobs while you commute to work sort of stuff. We all know (those of us in long term relationships) that it goes away. That too often one partner is yelling whoa like yosemite does.

If i can figure out how to get around that whoa moment or situation then i think i would be totally the genius i feel i am some days. I would take the medical world by storm and viagra sales would diminish. But i still haven't been able to crack that riddle yet. Any suggestions

stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
4/8/2013 7:18 am

Watch what turns each of you on, separately and together?


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/8/2013 7:39 am

    Quoting stars_light4U:
    Watch what turns each of you on, separately and together?
its an idea. however if there is no interest in the partner in finding something that turns her on then you are back at square one.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/8/2013 7:41 am

    Quoting  :

in answer to the last question i have questioned my own desirability and attractiveness way too often. I totally understand that women have the power in the sex equation. Hormonal issues comes with aging and this problem has been around from the get go it seems. Just one of those things i need to wrap my head around more.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/8/2013 9:16 am

I got no clue either my dear..... but thanks for the new mental image and sound of Yosemite Sam (my all time hands down FAVORITE character) yelling WHOA! WHOA MULE, WHOA!!!!!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/8/2013 10:53 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I got no clue either my dear..... but thanks for the new mental image and sound of Yosemite Sam (my all time hands down FAVORITE character) yelling WHOA! WHOA MULE, WHOA!!!!!
you are very welcome. funny how certain combos of words can trigger that giant smile lf pleasure from our childhood.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/8/2013 10:57 am

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first off let me salute the lucky guy that gets your awakened sexuality. lucky bastard. secondly everyone is an individual and what is the case for some is not the case for everyone re menopause. I have heard enough cases of the exhaustion thing being a mood killer in new parents. i think you can rock through that exhaustion thing though, it just takes the will to do it.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/8/2013 7:30 pm

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ooh i like the way that you think. i like that notion of a non negotiable date night.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/9/2013 5:52 am

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i hope it is possible too. i really really do. i dont want to think that i will be rubbing one out three or four times a week well into my old age.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/14/2013 12:29 pm

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i am really trying to figure out the way around the woah. it might be having the porn channel on 24/7. or something similarly absurd.


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