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Realizations  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
5/25/2012 4:32 am
Realizations


Now that the whole slut controversy seems to be dying down and i dont have to chase some of my favorite writers to another site it is time to sit down and come to some realizations.

The first being that the term slut is one we throw around here in blogland quite frequently and cavalierly. I think we need to understand that the rest of the world is not as down with this phrase as we are and still uses it as a hurtful and pejorative label. . There are those of us who self identify as a slut and that is great however no one introduces themselves to the business friends as "hi my name is________ and I am a slut". Just saying.

I think my new criteria for women in my life going to be this. If you can take your hand and wrap it around your upper arm and have the finger tips touch then I am not interested. I found a photo gallery devoted to "thick" ladies and have to say that really that is where my eye lands on the whole eye chart of loveliness. I find i prefer curves to angles and quite frankly if you look like i will break you in half during a spirited match of nude coed<b> wrestling </font></b>than please go away.

I think for the most part this is clear. I would say that i identify and feel strongest for women here who are thick. I love them to pieces. There was a few of the smaller girls who were here too but seem to have fallen by the wayside so there you have it. If you are ordering steak on a date with a cheese bread appetizer and drinking something that doesn't say light on the label, i will probably be trying to get in your pants later. There you have fair warning.

For the lottery gods out there. Look this is the beginning of summer type season and i would really like to just spend this one and many others not working so let me win the lotto tonight. I promise i will do something really foolish with the money as well.

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
5/25/2012 5:14 am

ordered a steak on a date, with a cheese bread appetizer and drinking something that doesn't say light on the label, but i guess you dropped me when i ordered two whole cheesecake for desert...sorry i guess that was bit too heavy for your wallet...next time, i will pay for my dessert ok???


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
5/25/2012 12:48 pm

Kudos to a guy who appeciates women who are 'bountifully beautiful'. Too bad the majority of men haven't yet figured out that a woman with a a little meat on her bones is the beneficiary of extra estrogen in those fat cells. Therefore, it should make her more sexually aware, or more highly sexed, right?

And all those men who love big boobs on women - but dislike fat? Have they not yet figured out that those big boobs are largely comprised of fat cells???

Men - can't figure 'em out, can't live without 'em.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


rm_impish_pixie 61F
6862 posts
5/25/2012 2:15 pm

Can always count on you to make me smile. I hope the lotto gods are incredibly good to you, and if they are, plan a trip to the beach.

As far as the slut issue, this is not the 1st time the whole using me for other websites has come up. If you've been here a while, you've seen it before and that's why you see all those, "NOTICE to any Institutions" little blurb on people's profiles...thing is I KNOW I'm not a slut and if you know me and I count you among my friends, YOU know I'm not a slut either, so frankly, what anyone else represents me to be, or thinks me to be, doesn't matter to me. Of course I'm not a Lesbian either, but that's another whole website of disappointed women if they happen to see me there and send an email. LOL

Have a great weekend!

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


blondegirlis 56F
4497 posts
5/25/2012 5:44 pm

A man after my own heart!

As for the lotto gods...hope they deem you worthy, too spend the money foolishly!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/25/2012 7:54 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    ordered a steak on a date, with a cheese bread appetizer and drinking something that doesn't say light on the label, but i guess you dropped me when i ordered two whole cheesecake for desert...sorry i guess that was bit too heavy for your wallet...next time, i will pay for my dessert ok???
i just couldnt believe you ate both of them. i was more stunned than cheap.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/25/2012 7:55 pm

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    Kudos to a guy who appeciates women who are 'bountifully beautiful'. Too bad the majority of men haven't yet figured out that a woman with a a little meat on her bones is the beneficiary of extra estrogen in those fat cells. Therefore, it should make her more sexually aware, or more highly sexed, right?

    And all those men who love big boobs on women - but dislike fat? Have they not yet figured out that those big boobs are largely comprised of fat cells???

    Men - can't figure 'em out, can't live without 'em.
so much more comfortable to roll around with a lady of substance. trust me on this one.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/25/2012 7:57 pm

    Quoting  :

we are out there. just might have to look a little harder to find us appreciative men.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/25/2012 7:59 pm

    Quoting rm_impish_pixie:
    Can always count on you to make me smile. I hope the lotto gods are incredibly good to you, and if they are, plan a trip to the beach.

    As far as the slut issue, this is not the 1st time the whole using me for other websites has come up. If you've been here a while, you've seen it before and that's why you see all those, "NOTICE to any Institutions" little blurb on people's profiles...thing is I KNOW I'm not a slut and if you know me and I count you among my friends, YOU know I'm not a slut either, so frankly, what anyone else represents me to be, or thinks me to be, doesn't matter to me. Of course I'm not a Lesbian either, but that's another whole website of disappointed women if they happen to see me there and send an email. LOL

    Have a great weekend!
see it is the assumption of someone else to declare you a slut that rubs me the wrong way. even though a pile of us on here have declared ourselves sluts it doesnt mean that the sting of someone else doing it to us doesnt lessen.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/25/2012 7:59 pm

    Quoting blondegirlis:
    A man after my own heart!

    As for the lotto gods...hope they deem you worthy, too spend the money foolishly!
hell yes. gold doorknobs for everyone i care about.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/26/2012 7:53 pm

    Quoting  :

apparently i am a treasure and never knew it. please dont bury me in the cold cold ground.


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