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Blogs > angeldemoted > Broken Halos

Just take it as a compliment...  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
2/17/2019 1:33 pm
Just take it as a compliment...

There are only a few profiles out there I visit with any kind of regularity. Yet I get messages at least weekly from guys asking me why I view their profile so often and never message.

I have two issues with these messages… firstly that really if a guy hasn’t figured out that the “views” count here works in interesting ways I question their intelligence.

And secondly… and my biggest peeve about these statements… so what if I’ve viewed your profile a million times. I have every right to just enjoy the view. As I’ve said before… viewing is no promise of communication.

And with more thought… actually three issues… the tone. These messages are always accusatory. Really do these guys think being rude/mean to someone will make them want to meet them?

So if it seems I’ve viewed you many times… daily… heck even hourly.


Just take it as a compliment!


And go on with your life.

angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
2/17/2019 1:50 pm

 And no I'm not irritable, grouchy, or bitchy if reply to your message about why I didn't message you.

And again... being rude is not going to convince me I change my mind.


travelhubby2 64M
Ask me for a photo
19 posts
2/17/2019 2:16 pm

 Yes! It's a compliment to view, not an invitation.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
2/17/2019 2:27 pm

 well said


let_me_see1 64M
Ask me for a photo

2/17/2019 2:32 pm

 I encourage any lady to view my profile. It's an honor and a goal to me. Hell, if nobody ever viewed my profile, I would first feel lonely and unwanted, and second I would feel I really wasted my time being so verbally creative! Check me out anytime!!!
Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!


LoveRealWomen45 40M

2/17/2019 6:13 pm

 Well the entire tone of this post is rude


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/17/2019 6:50 pm

 I'm surprised they're not more complementary.
Are you viewing from a safe distance(1,000 miles or better)
might explain their annoyance.Maybe their S O's keep seeing it
and are telling them to address it or perhaps are doing it themselves.
Using more than all the road!


SwirlLoveCpl 54M/50F

2/17/2019 10:11 pm

 We viewed a guys profile because he viewed us. Soon after, we received an email from him stating that we needed to stop viewing his content if we weren't going to contact him. He even included in his intro on his profile that he would report or block people that kept viewing his profile content without making contact. Charming. So, of course, we blocked him.

Not exactly sure why people think that being rude, abrasive, accusatory and crude will help them get any closer to whatever they are here for. Why waste the energy you could be using to chat with or meet someone nice to be an ass to strangers who will definitely not be interested after your tantrum.


angeldemoted replies on 2/18/2019 6:09 am:
OMG that's awesome. Given the way things work around here he must have have half the site blocked by now. It truly boggles my mind some people don't realize that not every "view" is actually someone actually viewing them.

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