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What do I get out of it….  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
12/1/2017 9:16 am
What do I get out of it….


So this recent drunken text event with a friend has got me thinking.
He would like to be able to get together and go down on me on a “time to time” basis. My immediate reaction was no. I like oral… but I do view it as an appetizer to the main event. However, I will admit I’ve never tried just having the appetizer. Maybe it could be satisfying on its own. I mean I like food appetizers on their own… why not sex. But I was still feeling like "what do I get out of this" (oral sex aside.)

As an apology for the drunken texts he took me out to a hockey game. I did teasingly grab his ass (hey he implied I should have done it years ago I couldn’t resist.) Doing that was alike a switch… it was like he had permission to touch now. So he did… in a totally fit for public consumption way (okay the lady with her teenage next to us might been annoyed with the petting but whatever nobody’s hands got any higher then halfway up a fully clothed thigh.)

And this is when realized while there is still more I could get out of this even without full blown penetrative sex. I am Touch Starved. Have been for years. So even getting my leg petted or hand stroked feels pretty damn amazing to me. That’s what I could get out of this if I took him up on his offer. Regular physical contact with an adult Pure (or not so pure) and simple. He wants to go down on me and submit… trade off… I get petted and cuddled. And get to get off too if he’s any good with his mouth.

Of course it’s not nearly that simple since while I’ve thought of it I’ve never actually been on the Dominant side of the equation. Probably could learn if I really wanted to though. And there’s the fact that I am susceptible to persuasion by touch because I’m so Touch Starved. Makes it seem like a great idea when probably isn’t simply because I want more.

angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
12/1/2017 9:17 am

And there's my weird and deep thoughts for today for your entertainment.


angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
12/1/2017 11:38 am

    Quoting gensan50:
    hand prints on your butt and your sex starved? lol
And did you check the date on that picture!


angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
12/1/2017 11:40 am

    Quoting  :

I'm female of course I'm over thinking it.


let_me_see1 64M

12/1/2017 1:24 pm

It's easy being a Dom. Just think of anything you want and tell him he has to do it! It has worked for me, and I have never even been slapped for it. LOL Seriously, you are in the driver's seat dear. He wants to go down on you (and unfortunately I live too far away), so ask for whatever it is that you really would like him to try with you. As the Dom, you always have the right to stop him if you don't enjoy it! Remember...it's all about the pleasure!!!

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