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Blogs > angeldemoted > Broken Halos

I don't get it...  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
4/16/2017 3:56 pm
I don't get it...

We’ve all seen various ladies blog posts mocking various messages we’re received. But lately I’ve stumbled across a few that go further. Not mocking the message but bashing the sender about their kinks. Or bragging about the malicious reply they send. Then proudly stating of course after all that they blocked the guy.

Now I’m all for the first type because let’s face it some of the stuff guys send is too funny not to share. But the other kind. I mean this is a sex site. Clearly you are going to meet people with kinks/tastes very different from your own. If you can’t deal with that in a mature way. i.e. Polite refusal or just ignore/block without comment. Well that’s kind sad.

Seriously why do people invest so much effort into something/someone they are not interested in. Why even write that nasty message… and then blog about it. Do they really need to put it out that that they are intolerant/rude just so a few people will respond and give them some positive affirmation. Of course if anyone should respond and disagree they will turn on them with insults and self righteousness.

I don’t get it.

HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
4/16/2017 4:03 pm

 your not the only one


Jubone 61M
22 posts
4/16/2017 4:26 pm

 Some people are so filled with self importance and a sense of superiority. I'm with you, why even bother and then brag. 3974207


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/16/2017 4:37 pm

 Your Question: Seriously why do people invest so much effort into something/someone they are not interested in. Why even write that nasty message… and then blog about it.

Your Answer: they really need to put it out that that they are intolerant/rude just so a few people will respond and give them some positive affirmation.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
4/16/2017 4:53 pm

 hmmm..isn't that the"do as I say,not as I do" mentality? and iv read a few doing body shaming...gawd forbid they should receive any shaming comments.
woop woop


cinnamonx 54F
458 posts
4/16/2017 7:46 pm

 Generally our social media is made up of shaming those different to ourselves, being negative and trolling makes those behind a computer feel.better about their own sorry lives. I may make a comment back then block and move on. Just did that to 4 men that I'm not interested in and won't take no for an answer. Would love to see their reaction next time they try to message....


angeldemoted replies on 4/17/2017 6:39 am:
You're right social media is very much about attention seeking. Positive or negative. It is sometimes so tempting to snap off a snide response. But blocking really is so much less drama.

let_me_see1 64M
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4/17/2017 5:58 am

 I think I know the blog that you are talking about and I couldn't agree more with you. If someone is into different stuff and I am not into it, I just move on. Lord knows that there are many, many different people, blogs and opinions on here to read. I may not agree or even think their view is sick. However, to respond, and with vulgar name calling, is just asking for a fight and may be giving the other person exactly what they were looking to engage in the first place.

Yes, I know the blog you are speaking of and I totally agree with your response!
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angeldemoted replies on 4/17/2017 6:31 am:
I have seen this behavior in a few places. But yes there is one specific blog that set off my need to post. I really don't get that person at all. Many of the entries in it just baffle me. The author seems to make poor choices and then get angry over the (rather unsurprising) outcomes.

I think my part in this is now to stop reading it and move on. Tough though... it's kinda like watching a train wreck... you just can't look away.

let_me_see1 64M
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4/17/2017 6:42 am

 I guess we take the good and bad in what we read, and more importantly, who is posting the stuff. I read that other blog fairly often. The author has a real negative side that I seems to always come out in the blog. And almost always about others that they encounter, rather than just the events of what each day brings us. It's a shame, because it really just makes everything else very unattractive.
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angeldemoted replies on 4/17/2017 7:05 am:
We all need our outlets. If this is how that author deals their with their anger. I suppose it's better then many other ways. But as you say when that's all that seems to be in the blog is presents a pretty unpleasant image.

wollkirk 55M
1 post
10/30/2017 8:53 pm

 Thank you. You are a kind soul.

I find it more then just sad, for me it's terribly disheartening.

I'm new to this, I don''t know what to say and am naturally very awkward around women so I do say stupid stuff.
To compound matters, I try to be honest about what I think and the situation I am in. This seems to be a big no-no here.

But I'm not going to tell someone I have never met that I think they are beautiful or amazing or whatever. And I will say I want to get laid.

I understand that we each have our likes and dislikes. That I think, is a good thing. But why put down someone because I wouldn't do what they are doing.
Or why slam the door on someone because I think they may be cheating on a partner.
What is wrong with saying, no thanks.

I don't get it either. Everyone's situation is different. Some people find themselves in situations they have no control over. Are they any less worthy of love, of respect, of compassion.

Reading some profiles one might think the answer is yes, they are less human, less worthy, less desirable.

I don't get it either and I fear I never will.


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