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I’m gonna have a heart attack and die from not surprise!  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
10/3/2016 8:27 pm
I’m gonna have a heart attack and die from not surprise!


So at long last this summer I managed to find a FWB situation that worked with my challenging schedule. We did it right we talked out all the details. Discussed STD testing, other partners etc. So I was aware he has another partner. But tonight as we texted about meeting up again sometime soon. He throws out there… that the other partner is now his girlfriend. But he adds he’s “okay with our kind of fun still.” So i figure better do my diligence on this one… “Is she okay with it?” I ask. Aaaaaaaand wait for it…….. He replies….

“She doesn’t know.”

Really… imagine that… in fact I think I’m gonna have a heart attack and die from not surprise!

Seriously what the hell… this is how he wants to start his new relationship. I mean shouldn’t you at least want to be faithful in the beginning of a relationship when all is new and shiny. What the hell is wrong with some guys.

Edit to add in a less ranty way:

Okay so after a poor nights sleep... I find it interesting I'm actually more offended on the girlfriends part then anything. I suspect he's setting the poor woman up to get hurt the way others have hurt him. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. But that's sure what it looks like to me. Sad. And no I'm not going to be involved.

topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/4/2016 6:28 pm


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