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Blogs > angeldemoted > Broken Halos

Arg....  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
6/15/2014 8:15 pm
Arg....

Warning: Confusing rambling vent follows

These days I am in fact not looking for a serious relationship in anyway shape or form. I don’t want one and even if I did… I don’t have time for one. I want a nice regular FWB type thing. Seems simple enough right.

But apparently men around me always assume I’m in a relationship. Should I dare to show interest in any of them and set the record straight that I am in fact single. Well then they run for the hills because I must only be interested in a serious relationship. Annoying.

Now I will grant this is complicated further by the fact that I only really meet men through work because of my hectic schedule so I must tred carefully with laying it out there with “I just want sex.”

Once again this week came the assumption that I could only want a serious relationship. My friend/co-worker attempted to “let me down gently” would have almost been laughable if it hadn’t bordered on insulting. Additional suggestion on his part that I try another co-worker who was another past attempt that failed didn’t help matters.

But seriously… is it that hard to image a girl might actually just want sex.

ElusiveKnight 33M
2 posts
6/15/2014 8:43 pm

 I can sense your frustration, and it is completely understandable. I think most men choose to believe that women are always looking for serious relationships, and nothing can be just about sex or FWBs with them. Therefore, they are much less likely to take a risk, and are more averse to the whole concept of accepting a woman who just seeks what you do. It isn't hard to imagine, but it might be easier for men to do so, as it lets them avoid rejection from women who are in fact looking for relationships when they may not be, or vice versa.


talldark884 59M
714 posts
7/2/2014 12:14 pm

 Hard to think of a woman just wanting sex... But I have met a few...
It is always a fun time...


Justdriller1969 54M  
4 posts
2/19/2015 10:12 am

 Everyone is looking for something. People on a Sex site are probably looking for.....SEX.
Wouldn't it be fun to have an orgasm with someone else in the room for a change.....
I know I'd like that lol.


Brandubh 51M

5/8/2015 9:51 am

 That is definitely frustrating


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