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Blogs > angeldemoted > Broken Halos

When did viewing a profile become such a serious thing...  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
9/17/2012 2:40 pm
When did viewing a profile become such a serious thing...

So I only just took my profile out of hidden a week ago now... as usual I've gained a bit of attention.(good for the ego it is) But I've had a surprising number of emails saying... "you viewed my profile why didn't you email me".

Soooo... rant mode on

So when exactly did viewing a profile become a commitment to communicate???????

Last I checked viewing profiles was how one decides if one even wants to communicate. And honestly there aren't too many profiles on here that would convince me to send a message. There are a few more that combined with a nice email from the person may convince me to reply but again still a minority.

If i viewed your profile and didn't email/reply... I likely did't like you that much. Your profile probably offended my delicate sensibilities in one of many ways.

Perhaps you have a horrid photo. Seriously i don't know what some of you were thinking when choosing your pic.

Perhaps you have no photo... hard to be attracted to that like grey out line of a man.

Maybe you used text speak throughout your about me section... I hate text speak.

More realistically i probably felt from your description of your interests that we wouldn't suit as i have pretty specific tastes.

Or possibly you didn't bother filling out any details... which left me no information to decide if we could possibly suit.

You can moan and wail all you like about how it's easier to talk about such details once contact has been established... so guys but with the number of emails I get I just don't have the time to go through the motions for every one.

So today's PSA: A profile view is simply a profile view. It does not equal any sort of binding contract for communication.

Rant mode off.

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