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BBW to not BBW and back again  

aman4u1962a 61M
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100 posts
6/28/2011 12:02 pm
BBW to not BBW and back again

I've seen a lot of posts recently from BBW asking if men would still be attracted to them if they lost weight and were no longer a BBW.

For me this is not a problem. All things being equal I do prefer a full figured woman, but I am much more interested in a woman's personality, her inner beauty so to speak. If we're attracted to each other for the right reasons a change in body type should not change our feelings or desire for one another.

I've known several BBW (mostly relatives) who lost weight to become "HWP" but they were miserable. They lost their personality, their identity along with their weight. Nothing seemed to make them happy. Eventually they regained the weight they had lost (sometimes more) and also regained their former vibrant personalities. They were happy again after regaining the weight.

There's a moral in there somewhere, but my lunch break is over and I have to get back to work LOL.

CurvyJasmine 59F
1005 posts
11/21/2013 4:18 am

 I, too, have a health issue that could benefit from me losing some weight. Like the poster above, I just want to lose enough to feel better yet keep all of my womanly attributes.
“Sex is always about emotions. Good sex is about free emotions; bad sex is about blocked emotions.”
― Deepak Chopra

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/26/2013 1:52 pm

 You have a great attitude and keep it up. I never have been BBW. My life style would not let it be that way. Stay fit stay young. Lots of here soon as they see BBW they are scared away.. Good for you! hugs V

Leaving you with this thought for today!



A touching story on how men think
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dawnadoll 55F
444 posts
10/16/2013 9:56 pm

 Even when I was thinner i we still not petite. My personality is always beautiful. they inside is more than the outside so some tell me. That is because they don't like over weight people. I love your thoughts. wished you lived closer. I think your sexy. Even though I have never seen a picture of you. sexy is more than looks.
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aman4u1962a replies on 10/18/2013 7:28 am:
Thanks for the complement. I agree that what is on the inside of a person is much more important than what is on the outside.

Msboobsy 70F
5972 posts
6/28/2011 10:19 pm

 I agree that is shouldn't matter on the weight at all. But unfortunately it does to a lot of men. I have always had a weight problem but would love to lose some for health reasons. Because of my health I have put on a lot of weight the past couple of years. But I would hope it wouldn't matter to the man I was with.


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