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Blogs > wrMercury > Sanity of a madman

The ongoing annoyances  

wrMercury 46M
924 posts
6/10/2017 12:16 pm
The ongoing annoyances


As of late I feel completely discouraged in general.

The fact that work sucks is nothing much new. I keep working long hours, get everything done and receive very little recognition for it. But I know that will never change and typically deal with that fairly well.

The fact that I have to carry all of the household expenses has been a constant irritation, but one that I typically handle because this is how it has always been. There is no convincing my wife that she is responsible for helping out with the bills, or helping out with various household chores instead of having me do all the cleaning. On top of that the sex has stopped for over two years, but I am still expected to give her a foot rub or back rub at her whim. But again, this is how it has always been.

The more recent fact that I can't seem to get laid is a growing irritation. I will meet people in chat who will chat for an hour or two, talk all about what they want to do, their fantasies, etc, and no one wants to meet. I cannot host, and apparently neither can anyone else. That is proving to be a bit vexing.

I feel as though I am reaching a breaking point as no matter where I am turning right now I can't seem to find any relief. Everything is just adding to my stress levels, and I can't find a good way to blow off some steam. But again, this has been building for years, so I don't really know if I am just not tolerating it, or if I am tired of tolerating it.

wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 12:16 pm

 Maybe I will just run away and become a hermit.


HH_boobs_bbw 49F
35 posts
6/10/2017 12:30 pm

 Read or watch "The Secret" on netflix or read the book. Seems a little hokey at first but worth it
“Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me,
I don't want it if it's that easy”
― Tupac Shakur


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 12:45 pm
    Quoting HH_boobs_bbw:
    Read or watch "The Secret" on netflix or read the book. Seems a little hokey at first but worth it
Never really been one for self help books.


rusty20055 68M
642 posts
6/10/2017 1:01 pm

 I hear every word you are saying!


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 1:02 pm
    Quoting rusty20055:
    I hear every word you are saying!
I am beginning to think that the only people that listen to anything I say are in here.


CNYMale4Fun 63M

6/10/2017 1:04 pm

 No, leave and make yourself happy!!! There are MANY others on here how'd love to treat you right!!!


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 2:43 pm
    Quoting CNYMale4Fun:
    No, leave and make yourself happy!!! There are MANY others on here how'd love to treat you right!!!
While the thought does cross my mind, leaving is not the best option for now.


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 2:44 pm
    Quoting  :
I appreciate it


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
6/10/2017 4:57 pm

 I will tell you this. Life is like that some pple go thru worse but don't talk about it. I know the feeling been there and trust me it's not a fun place. Look at the bright side there pple who wished to be here but there not. Heng in there there is a light at the end on the tunnel . Do no give up. Give thanks for the little u have some have nothing .


blzcpl 60M/63F  
180 posts
6/10/2017 6:07 pm

 Hoping things improve for you. Difficult being in your situation but as lyavu said there always is a light at the end of the tunnel. Continue to try and move in a forward motion and somewhere out there happiness is to be found. Will send positive energies your way
BLZCPL


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 7:53 pm
    Quoting lyavu:
    I will tell you this. Life is like that some pple go thru worse but don't talk about it. I know the feeling been there and trust me it's not a fun place. Look at the bright side there pple who wished to be here but there not. Heng in there there is a light at the end on the tunnel . Do no give up. Give thanks for the little u have some have nothing .
I know that there are people that have it much worse than I do. For me I think right now it is a continual feeling that things are not getting better and I just don't have options to make them better. The tunnel has just proved to be much longer than I ever thought it would be.


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
6/10/2017 7:54 pm
    Quoting blzcpl:
    Hoping things improve for you. Difficult being in your situation but as lyavu said there always is a light at the end of the tunnel. Continue to try and move in a forward motion and somewhere out there happiness is to be found. Will send positive energies your way
So long as the light at the end of the tunnel is not an oncoming train I suppose.


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