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Hell Hath No Fury (Network Only)
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DEAR Dear, I've got your back! Do you wanna round up a possy.?. I feel for you!
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 I've never pretended to understand what was happening there but I've always known that your heart is in it 100% and more, maybe even more than you would have wanted it to be. I'm so sorry thing happened. One thing I have learned is that there is an up side to being broken: you, and only you, get to decide how yo put your life and yourself back together.
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You're not broken. You're a lot stronger than most. I don't expect you to trust me or open up to me after this mountain of bullshit, but I'm always there when you need a smile or three. I still like your ass, btw.
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I'm so sorry you have been so badly hurt. There is only one true revenge and that is to live the rest of your life well....by your rules not his. You don't need to exact revenge you just need to heal your heart and it will heal better if you do it with dignity. ~~Anais Nin~~
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Sorry Kid. We've all been there a time or four. But at the risk of sounding sanguine, you've been stirred but not shaken. At least you aren't crushed to the point where you can't even muster anger, and based on my personal experience, anger is far better than despair...and telling his wife will only make you feel worse in the long run. You might also consider that you actually got much of what you were looking for, that is, an emotional connection coupled with lust. Clearly it didn't turn out the way you hoped, but I'm not convinced that would have been in your best interest anyway. Course, it's not my place to judge what you do, or with whom, or how to feel, or when to feel it, or why. That's for you to figure. But regardless of you do, I hope you know that I do care and wish you only the best.
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That sucks. There's a ton of cliches I could offer, but only one seems apropos; This, too, shall pass. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Well! Sorry you are dealing with an ass like that! But NOT ALL of us are shitheads!!!! And a few of us are still kind and sweet as well! LOL! Even if we have a naughty smile with nice eyes!  It will get better! My evil one was 4 years ago. Sucks when you grow to care about someone and always will even though they don't give a shit. Take care Sexy! xoxo 
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K, I don't know what to tell you except that we all love you and hate that you're in pain. BUT, I hope you will see the opportunity for growth even through heartache. NOT to build up walls and close yourself off but to think about how you have changed as a person (for the better!) because of this situation, how you've shown strength in spite of adversity. I know it sounds cliche and bullshitty, but that is the kind of self-talk I have to do regarding my situation with Andrew. Of course, he did not mean to hurt me...it just sort of happened that way. It still sucks bigtime though  Let me know if you want to talk! xoxo ***
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Ooooooooooo...that doesn't sound good at all...I am truly sorry and wish I could make it up to you. Even though I'm not "That Guy" I still feel responsible somehow...one of my real failings I guess. It seems the more men I meet or her about the more I find they are like this...makes me ashamed to share their gender. I want to assure you that not all men are like this...there are those of us who are real, dependable and honest and true. It does me no good to tell you and you likely have a very good right to be skeptical, but don't paint all of us with this same brush. I know for a fact that had we met you would see I'm right. But alas another victim of the "typical" man...shit! My heart actually does feel bad for you...but then I am an old softy...sorry 
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Here is a hug . Sorry to hear that. I got fucked over real good from the ex. Just about bankruptcy. She was cheating too. She was pulling credit cards out in my name and putting hotels rooms with her lovers on them. Any was that is why I ran when a new friend started talking marriage. This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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As I've said many times before about this site, one bad apple doesn't spoil the whole bunch... but when most of the apples look bad, nobody wants to look for the few good ones. Yes, there are many selfish Neanderthals on here, and they ruin the experience not only for the women, but for the truly good guys as well. Even if we could all pay $1 to line up and kick this guy in the nuts, a bunch of Neanderthals would be waiting to take his place. But there is probably one really nice guy out there. One who would have treated you well, with honesty and respect. And now he has been rejected through no fault of his own. And quite often, this sort of event makes guys either give up completely or turn into the same sort of Neanderthal because he comes to believe that it will be the only way he will ever get noticed. Please, don't destroy the remaining good apples. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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One ass ruined it for the rest of us my sweet? That's not right love. There are still a few good men out there. As for myself, I've spent a year and a half with a woman I had hopes of loving me as I loved her. Things did not work out for whatever reason, things got ugly and low for whatever reason, and I am moving on for the better. Feel what you are feeling sweetie. Delve into it, until you can delve no more, but remember... this too shall pass my lovely friend. I promise you that. Thoughts from the Garden...
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