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Labels - am I really bi or just bored? LOL  

biATXguy 55M
67 posts
2/1/2019 7:08 am
Labels - am I really bi or just bored? LOL

Was thinking about my post about<b> prostate </font></b>toys, which led me to think about how we label ourselves and how society labels us...

I think a straight man can enjoy anal play. That doesn't make him gay or bi. It's sort of like the saying "If it feels good, do it." If you get pleasure from anal play, enjoy it and don't worry about what people think. Be who you are and do what you enjoy. We are so trained by society about what is acceptable and what our role is supposed to be. That's all crap!

So am I bi or just bored? I mean, I know what I like sexually, and there's a lot LOL. Does that make me bi? Or am I more pansexual? I definitely don't limit my sexual attraction to one gender or sex, but I am not gonna fuck just anybody. I have standards LOL! I like a dick in me (or my dick in a guy) every now and then. And for me, sex and romantic feelings are separate things. I don't think I would ever be capable of romantic feelings for another man, where I definitely would with a CIS or trans woman. But there are the occasional guys I am very sexually attracted to. I look more at the individual rather than the gender when it comes to sex.

Thoughts? Comments? Would love to hear your feedback!

Bringiton2me69 57M
1 post
2/2/2019 7:06 pm

 Im the same way. I like sex with men and women, yet I couldnt develop romantic feelings for a man. I think I could for a transgender woman but I dont know cuz I haven't met one yet. I am sexually attracted to the idea of having sex with a beautiful woman with a penis, best of both worlds, I guess. I think it boils down to embracing, cuddling, and snuggling kinda of stuff.


biATXguy replies on 2/3/2019 5:20 am:
I agree. I'm not really into kissing men, cuddling, snuggling... Of course there might be an exception to that, never say never, but it hasn't happened yet. It's more about raw sex for me with guys. I am also very into an attractive woman with a penis, and I would happily kiss, cuddle, and snuggle with her!

biATXguy replies on 2/3/2019 5:24 am:
Oh, and thank you for sharing your thoughts!

Mart78613 66M

2/5/2019 7:53 am

 If you have the same friend as I did over time kissing and being close to each other is just natural. I am not saying get married. But each of us just need intimacy sometimes The best prostate toy is someones finger. And I like that play.


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