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Blogs > bbiguy2 > From a bi guy's point of view

THE VALUE OF MY BISEXUAL EXPERIENCE  

bbiguy2 65M
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6/5/2015 7:20 am

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9/28/2020 5:22 am
THE VALUE OF MY BISEXUAL EXPERIENCE

I'm not sure if I hadn't had the experience as I I would have ever tried it. But I'm thankful, and feel fortunate that I had that, it really opened my eyes to the fact that we are all sexual, plain and simple, all the stigma, labels etc., are nothing more than politics, religious, etc. bias. I'm not including perversion, and the down right abhorrent behavior that some people are capable of. I was born in the 50's and lived in a small town, catholic, yada, yada, and I can honestly say I never believed I or anyone else, would burn, or was some kind of freak, etc. for enjoying physical pleasure, I mean in nature there is pain and there is pleasure, if it's so wrong for two consenting adults, or for that matter one person lol, to enjoy sexual pleasure, why would it feel so good. I'm not trying to justify anything with that simple logic, just saying it really puts a light on the fact that the judgment society, religion etc. places on a free human beings personal behavior has little to do with the real world we each individually exist in. I know my experiences have made me a better person, a better man, and for sure a better lover, ( ask my wife ) Also I know from my own existence, that people are complex, very individual, of course we all may have similarities, but any label we adopt, or is placed on us cannot possibly define who we really are. My wife and I have been together for 35 yrs. worked through the rough spots, and here we are. She knows about me, we have no big secretes about any of that. I feel so fortunate to have the honesty we have. as time has gone by her desire for sex is not what it once was, not unusual for some women, she allows me to be me, she trusts me, and she is not threatened by it, she knows I'm not going to run off with anyone else.... No chasing chicks tho, lol, which is fine with me, too much trouble, drama etc.
I have only ever been with 3 guys, in all this time. I'm just not the guy that's going to just hook up , not going to happen, I mean to each their own and all, but guys that do that with men or women are just nuts in my opinion, If I never find another guy I trust to get with, I'm ok with that, I have my own cock to play with, of course it's not the same, but I like my cock, and I really know this guy, he's totally safe in every way LOL, I really hope I can find "the guy" tho.
If my wife was not cool with this, I can honestly say I'm not sure how id be with that. I'm sure there would be some stress with it. Seems the older I get the more I realize what a gift life is, and how fleeting it is.
The pleasure I've known both with my wife and the 3 guys ive been with, is for me is very different and similar, of course the sex with my wife also carries the emotion, the deep , long connection, all we share in life, and the man woman thing, It's not easy to put in words to explain the sex with guys , I cant say there is no emotion exactly, also hard to explain, but with the right guy ( and that's all its ever been for me) the sex and being in that is very different, I guess because I know what it is to be a guy, so being with a guy sexually is, well, it gives me a perspective a lot of guys will never know.
Again, I don't know that I can explain it, I just know it. when I'm with a guy and get him off and get off with him its very intense to say the least. I haven't been there in quite a while, but its not something you forget.
I'm not the guy you would see some place and say to your self,,, there's a bi guy;;;; lol, like I said people are complex. I am bottom with a guy, I have actually had orgasms without touching my cock while being fucked, im sure sex is at least 90% in our heads, but wow, its good when your in that place, I've also had these long orgasms I don't know that its like the multiple orgasms women have but, I have had them, soo intense, and again, words cant explain them, I wouldn't want them a lot, too draining, exhausting, but almost like a little glimpse of heaven when it happens , sounds weird, I know, but I'll take it...... the way it is for me, I just want to enjoy what I can , while I can, hope to find "that guy" again, but that's not all there is to my enjoyment of life, I have a good bit of fun just being me, it's also nice to chat with other guys about it, remember the fun, memories, etc. everyone has to make choices. lots of choices...I choose to enjoy all I can, in my own way. . in a perfect world all this would be a lot easier, that's not happening tho is it.
Help yourself, just not at somebody else's expense.

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