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Cocks and Expectations
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Cocks and Expectations Like most guys, I love my cock. Just my own, I may add, though I don't deny other guys the joy of their own organs. My cock usually controls most of my decisions, certainly all the important ones relating to women and sex. I can't really deny any of its urges, no matter where those adventures may take me. But that being said, I'm also a realist. I'm no John Holmes or Ron Jeremy. I measure a very average length and thickness. On the other hand, I've never been particularly disappointed with what I have. I guess my insecurities are enough that I did feel the need to find out the average size, but that was driven at least in part by the dozens of profiles I've seen on here on FriendFinder. If these profiles are to be believed, and who would lie on their profile, every guy without pictures or video is no less than 10 inches long. The only scientific explanation is that every guy above average is drawn to this site! What's strange is the number of women who buy into the idea that the size of a man's penis is all that we are – I obviously avoid contacting these ladies since I don't meet their exacting requirements, but I can't help but wonder: is that all that one would want in a sex partner? I don't want just a<b> barbie </font></b>doll in bed, I need a whole lot more by way of personality, intelligence and humor in my partners, even if it's only for the odd night now and again. By the same token I consider myself a lot more than a (medium sized) cock. If nothing else, even if my intelligence and other personality traits are of no importance, surely women expect something more by way of sexual prowess than just a large dick? I mean, these guys, and the women seeking them, don't seem to ever mention kissing, oral talents or even a basic skill with their endowment. It's a free sex world, and if that floats their boat, I no one to object, but it does strike me as strange. Which brings me to the other strange thing I've noticed: guys seems to think that getting a blow job is some kind of privilege and that they are doing women a favor by letting those women suck their cocks. Don't get me wrong – I love a woman going down on me as much as the next guy. But I also think it's a quid pro quo arrangement; if she's going to lavish her attentions on my cock, I need to do something besides lean back in my chair and make guttural sounds. A 69 positions seems by far the most obvious way to go, and it may be just me, but I think my own pleasure is heightened when I have my face buried in her pussy, my lips busy on her clit as she sucks me off. Again, I can totally enjoy having the occasional blow job where she goes down on her knees and does all the work – it's hard to not enjoy it, especially when she's mixing pure physical pleasure with a subliminal message of submission; but that should be a gift from her, not a general expectation on my (or any guy's) part, and should be reciprocated whenever the opportunity presents - a good ass rimming maybe, or a length dining session at the Y. And above all, the choice of where I come should be mutual – if she wants to swallow, that's fine. If she'd like me to shoot over her face or tits, that's fine too. But if she wants oral only as an appetizer to a normal course, I'm fully on board. Above all, sex is about mutual pleasure, and both men and women should follow the dictates of their own bodies, not the preset ideas churned out by porn movies. Everyone to their own pleasure, I guess, but for me, pleasure and respect are both mutual and actually codependent. |
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