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I came across an interesting blog...
I came across an interesting blog... A blog popped out at me. It was to do with all the married men and attached men who prey on single women. This happens to me all the time...even if it is stated in my profile that i am not interested in either. I am looking for my own. And i am polite about it. But perhaps being polite is not the angle to go dealing with this matter. Perhaps i have to tell them to take a flying leap off a very short pier. Maybe they will get the hint then. Or perhaps they think with theiir small brain instead of the one on top of their head and are unable to read profiles. Enough is enough. But time and time again...i hear these sob stories where the men are in sexless marriages. I usually tell them they have two choices. Either stay in the sexless marriage or get out. Two choices. But dont bother single women who state on their profile that they are not wanting this. Come on guys....get on with the program. |
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4/25/2011 7:37 pm |
Some people are so full of themselves and believe you'd make an exception because they believe they're just that hot! Don't let em bother ya too much, I'm sure there's more to come. Good luck.
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4/25/2011 10:13 pm |
There IS another possibility - a mistress. A lady that wants to be a mistress. Or just wants to be a girlfriend, a paramour (the word {and the activity} have been around a long time.)
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4/25/2011 10:16 pm |
p.s. yes, "no" means no (married men). (In your profile) p.p.s. Yes, I LOVE convoluted sentences and parenthesis and quote marks. Weird, eh ?
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Some guys dont get it, not sure why. If you say no married men then its no married men. I am honest and open about my situation and never push myself on a lady. Women want what they want and that is the ladies preference and right. Guys dont have the right to be pushy or harass ladies. I have met some really cool people here and some not so cool people as well; Married, single, separated...doesnt mean I have slept with them all, but have made some friends. So the pushy guys need to move on, cause they are giving the gentlemen here a bad .
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yes it works both ways.have had some married ladies send stuff to me.better not to cause more problems than already there.could be a bad thing for all involved.keep telling them to take a hike Sexy.keep your standards.
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Thanks newbie and sweetlickz for your comments. I will keep up my standards however...i am afraid i will become a nun!!! It is all about respect but also honesty sweetlickz. This guy was not honest with me at all. Thus i was blown away by his secret lifestyle. As if it would have mattered if he had been honest with me. But keeping it so private and making me feel special was so unfair. But when is life ever fair???
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4/27/2011 6:41 pm |
The cure for a sexless marriage is that site for affairs. There are more than enough women on there who state they want an affair. Many of the people here seem to be very liberal and sexually active. Funny thing is others, men seem to think this is the other web site.
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A sexless marriage in my humble opinion should end before the affairs start to begin. My ex had affairs on me and when i finally found out that was it. As well as the abuse he put me through but that is a whole other story. But with my exhusband i gave him sex 3 or 4 times a day. Ours was not sexless but he had roaming eyes and when i asked him about him always looking at other women...the answer he gave me was "I can read the menu...i just cant order". He was constantly looking at other women. But when i talked to a coworker who happened to be a male in front of my ex...i was beat and ignored and yelled for me to never talk to a man again. Thus i never looked. Still dont look at men. Maybe that is my problem....Hmmmmm!!!!!
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It's a great thing that you rid of him. I have ABSOLUTELY no time for men like your ex. If a marriage is failing, then so be it. Life is to damn short to waste. I am embarassed by these type of men (men, in this case, is an ill-fitted title). And you're right J, respect for each other is a must..and rather horny Posty P.S. I would love to be in your network of friends...if you like.
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4/29/2011 2:26 pm |
I don't think just the idea of getting an email from a married guy should provoke a harsh response. Everyone has their own reasons why they are on here or on any other website. Of course, if one keeps persisting after being refused, thats impolite. But for the rest, not many people know for sure what they want...
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You are right zevild. But when my profile states i am not looking for married and attatched men. But if they want to do what they want in their own lives i dont have a problem with that. But this blog was about me. I dont want a married or attached man. Plain. Period. But many still come onto me. This upsets me to no avail.
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4/29/2011 11:05 pm |
Plenty of Cocks in the sea... oh I mean fish ;o)
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Good point zzz2j. I truly never thought of these cases. You are so correct when you bring these maritial situations into the realm of my blog. I am going to have to eat my dust. As for you swetay....I am single as well. Wanna run off and hook up and have a healthy sex life!!!!
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Jennie: Good work on a troublesome situation. There is no right answer per se. Good Agent Tripple Z has a good point on the exceptions that are around and of which we do know. Unfortunately; you have been abused by a miscreant. As Shakespeare would say: "Fie on him". There are too many men who don't get it. The Golden Rule, for instance. Too simple for some, unfortunately. Many thanx to you for sharing your good works and words of wisdom. But, Is this Weird World ready for you,,,,,,,,,,yet? In the meantime, we are prone to keep our friends close and our adversaries at arms length, keeping watch with a jaundiced eye. Be well, stay safe and Happy May 1, to you all, y'all.
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LOL at swetay!!! You are becomming to be a regular of my blogs. All the best this next week. Hugs...
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You are so sweet you are going to rot all my teeth!!!! Hugs
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1 post 6/29/2011 7:17 am |
I think you deserve a good man to come to you + make you feel special again. Because you are. Married men + women should stay at home or become single. If the marriage isnt working it may need some fixing. Who knows but it should,nt be on someone who wants no part of being a home wrecker. PS I would love to sweep you off to somewhere private. remote + romantic
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