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Make-Up Sex.....
Make-Up Sex..... I am pretty sure anyone in a relationship would have experienced this feature of intimacy at some point in their lives. You have a fight, throw stuff around, hurl abuses and then get somber.... all of a sudden a simple touch and grasp by your partner solves the whole tension and the sexual heat and passion takes up a new decibel level. Make up sex creates an infusion of a high level of sexual energy and satisfaction because of the following factors: 1) Get your blood pumping: The adrenaline levels are quite high when there is an argument, the emotions are already on the speedy lane. This actually acts as a stimulation for enhancing the sexual energies to explode. Fundamentally speaking, when two people quarrel, they get excited. That excitement can easily translate into a state of arousal, and consequently, stupefying sex. 2) Re-look at your partner with love: After the arguments, brawl, harshness and separation, when the partners unite....the love, emotions and the fondness of your partner gets exemplified as it conveys the feeling of regaining the aura that both of you shared. The sensuality of the other partner comes to the fore which was missing due to the monotonicity of day to day life. 3) Aggression: The fire might have been doused but the heat still remains. There is also the feeling of being hurt during the process of breaking bad... this transfuses into a high aggression which each of the partner want to force on the other. One of the extremes in after-argument sex is the "remember who's in control here," domineering sex. 4) Regain assurance: On the other side of the two extremes is the "don't leave me" sex. It's at this point that the partners begin to realize that they may lose a really good thing that had so much of bonding, compatibility, togetherness and care. 5) Intense Satisfaction: You are coming together after being emotionally distant... and sex triggers a sense of reunion. The energies are high, the love making is vigorous and the sexual satisfaction is intense. |
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Good to know you had your adrenalin channelized for pleasure buddy.
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I agree with sunnygirl. It does not work for me. I get totally turned off sexually by a woman who abuses and insults me. But people are different. There is no formula which suits all.
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Once again, I guess I'm the odd man out. I have never fought with anyone, let alone a lover. Throw things around and hurl abuses? If I were ever angry enough to do or say those types of things to a lover, how and why would I want to get intimate? I am, and I expect my lovers to be, good at communicating. I just don't get it, but I've known for a very long time that I'm very different from other people, especially when it comes to relationships. ONE time with ONE lover, he yelled at me and it was over for me. I never yelled at or spanked my kids either, but again, I'm just a weirdo, I guess. I came to grips with that years ago. Zero drama. Ever. It does not have to be abusive or physical......
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I agree with sunnygirl. It does not work for me. I get totally turned off sexually by a woman who abuses and insults me. But people are different. There is no formula which suits all.
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