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Meet n greet 1
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Meet n greet 1 Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I hope I have one soon. So I've been off work for 3 weeks now. I've had quite a few meet-and-greets. I'm doing my best. After all, I'm not working I'm not traveling. At this point I don't think it really matters. This shits all so discouraging. So I decided to meet this guy that lives about 45 minutes away. He was going to meet me down the road at a little Pub. That was close to my house And for me if he was drinking he would want to spend the night. I informed him I don't have sex the first time I meet somebody because after all it is a meet and greet. So I did agree to let him spend the night. After It was okay, no ripping off of the clothes no I want to jump your bones or anything like that. Somewhere in the Night the guy breaks my bed frame. The solution, he puts a brick underneath it. And the brick is still there after a month. I haven't been able to get it fixed. So since I met the guy, he conveniently got a hold of me after New Year's Eve. With some excuse. But I went out anyway with another date. And that's another story. So, since I've met the guy he hasn't had phone service, his mom's been sick for a while, he said the flu, he's been off work for a couple days. I don't know what other excuses he's had. I actually gave up on him after he broke my bed. I just speak to him when he calls. I guess maybe he thinks we're still going out after all this. Or maybe I believe all this I don't know Anyway I told him after he called me this last time I said man I go you had a lot of things going on I hope you get them all straightened out. Maybe all that stuff's been happening who knows. I guess this is all leading up to the fact that since I'm not traveling I'm making a conservative effort to meet people. Well if this first 3 weeks is any indication of what's going to happen maybe I really don't want to do this. It's actually discouraging as hell. Being off work and recuperating or making some life decision doesn't help either. Wish people would be up front and I don't know. That's all I can say. Have a wonderful day. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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Perhaps, dearie, he's embarrassed about breaking your bed. It's not something which happens all of the time you know. He's probably thinking "if I break this, no telling what else I'm going to break...I better stay the hell away from this woman until I can afford her and her nice things..." Maybe not. Maybe as you said, he's got a lot of things going on and you need to let him get to them so when things do slow down for him, you can resume the date. I have several female friends. They allow me to spend the night with them when I come visit with them and we're not ripping off each others clothing or sneaking for a suck or lick. Adults can sleep in the same roof safely. What needed to be done is exactly like what we did over the weekend when I went back hom to E-town to visit with a female friend I haven't seen in like a couple of years. We rolled out the day bed, she found blankets and pillows, I slept alone and she slept alone in her room. No harm, no foul. She was also happy that UK pulled off a win also.
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Well if I had broken your bed I hope the sex was that good and that you want me back to fix it. I would have not left till I have fixed in the first place, weather I did it or not. Then i'ld ask if we can test it out again. For him talking to you and dragging ass about another get together I'ld not hold my breath. For 45 minutes is not far trip for a date with you. unless he was great in bed and you want him back i'ld tell him move on. just my feelings.
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