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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

It's just a meet n greet  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
1/26/2018 3:00 pm
It's just a meet n greet

Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure would love .

Okay, this wasn't what I was going to blog on but anyway, what is a meet and greet.

For me, a meet-and-greet between people that meet online is to see if you like each other. And to diuss where you're going after that and what you decide you both want.

Or, you may both decide you're not a match. And that's it.

I've had several meet and greets since I've been off work. Trust me I'm going to blog about almost each and every of them.

Just because I agree to meet you and you buy me a drink or and maybe some food. I was okay with the drinks.

That doesn't give you the privilege to want to park with me and touch my tits as you say. That's .

Or like the guy today said because we weren't going to hook up, why should we take the time to meet. Really, all you've d is and talk to me a couple times. Now I know why you didn't do the first meet and greet.

I guess people have their own concept of what a meet-and-greet is. But I look at it this way if I meet you online I'm going to meet you somewhere in person in a public place for a drink or something. And then we figure out if we're going to do anything.

How hard is that. It's really up to each individual.

Do you have sex at the meet n greet, that's up to you. I used to, but I don't anymore for my own reasons.

It's like I always tell people I don't have to be on an online site adult or vanilla to find sex. I can find that anywhere. all I have to do is pick up the ph.

Have a good evening. It's been a pleasure.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
karmamdA 65M
311 posts
1/26/2018 3:05 pm

 you said it Right baby a meet n greet is just ameeting to see where you both want to go from there ,,,, hope you are feel good today beautiful love the girls jeff


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/26/2018 3:26 pm

 No matter how clear you are SOME men will try. Most likely attached so have to f then and there. One reason not hi and meet the same day or the next day. Attached or wants a one time meet.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
1/26/2018 3:53 pm

 Your idea of a meet and greet is exactly what I think it should be. You meet, see if there is a connection/attraction, and then mutually decide if or how you should proceed.

If there is no connection, you go your seperate ways, no harm - no foul! Seems to me it's not unreasonable to expect both parties to act like mature adults.
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


HollyChatsNJ 65T
2792 posts
1/26/2018 5:08 pm

 For a few years I was a hostess at a place called "The Hideaway South" in Northern VA just outside of DC.

We've became known as the perfect spot on weekends for meet and greets.

I have to admit most nights we were open the crowd was always respectable. Every now and than you do have those one or two that you wish were never there.

The place was an outdoor BBQ/Cafe that was very LGBT/Straight friendly. No sex took place on the property, but it was the perfect spot to see if you clicked or not. We also had a lot of couples that were into swinging show up.

Good times back than... I miss it.
~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/26/2018 5:28 pm

 I never have asked on a meet and greet nor will I.
It's interesting that it was o k to but now it's
inappropriate.

The real kicker is that everyone
has their own unique interpretation of what this site
represents.Once that's ironed out we wouldn't hear much of
this sort of thing.I kind of get the distinct impression that it isn't
mentioned prior to meeting is because one never knows,
which seems rather contradictory or maybe a little double
standard ish.
Using more than all the road!


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/27/2018 6:29 am
    Quoting karmamdA:
    you said it Right baby a meet n greet is just ameeting to see where you both want to go from there ,,,, hope you are feel good today beautiful love the girls jeff
That's what I thought.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/27/2018 6:31 am
    Quoting Brownie202:
    No matter how clear you are SOME men will try. Most likely attached so have to f then and there. One reason not hi and meet the same day or the next day. Attached or wants a one time meet.
That is what I have found to to quite true.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/27/2018 6:32 am
    Quoting GreenEyedLady_60:
    Your idea of a meet and greet is exactly what I think it should be. You meet, see if there is a connection/attraction, and then mutually decide if or how you should proceed.

    If there is no connection, you go your seperate ways, no harm - no foul! Seems to me it's not unreasonable to expect both parties to act like mature adults.
It's craziness I tell you.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/27/2018 6:36 am
    Quoting s2ndegree:
    I never have asked on a meet and greet nor will I.
    It's interesting that it was o k to but now it's
    inappropriate.

    The real kicker is that everyone
    has their own unique interpretation of what this site
    represents.Once that's ironed out we wouldn't hear much of
    this sort of thing.I kind of get the distinct impression that it isn't
    mentioned prior to meeting is because one never knows,
    which seems rather contradictory or maybe a little double
    standard ish.
It's not that sex isn't or wasn't addressed, I let them know up front what my meet n greet is. Whether they are from an adult or vanilla site.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/27/2018 6:38 am
    Quoting HollyChatsNJ:
    For a few years I was a hostess at a place called "The Hideaway South" in Northern VA just outside of DC.

    We've became known as the perfect spot on weekends for meet and greets.

    I have to admit most nights we were open the crowd was always respectable. Every now and than you do have those one or two that you wish were never there.

    The place was an outdoor BBQ/Cafe that was very LGBT/Straight friendly. No sex took place on the property, but it was the perfect spot to see if you clicked or not. We also had a lot of couples that were into swinging show up.

    Good times back than... I miss it.
That was a nice memory. Thanks for sharing.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
1/30/2018 5:05 pm

 every one can hide behind a key board type out anything they want the other to hear. they can describe themselves to be anything they want. a meet and great is just that to meet and see what is real. It would be good to know before time that just because we meet we are not jumping into bed after coffee. Unless the friendship and understanding of each other has been worked out on line and now it time to meet and see if the picture match the real person also. ild have to say meet and greets could be a very odd thing for both but respect and trueth is the key.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/3/2018 11:44 am
    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    every one can hide behind a key board type out anything they want the other to hear. they can describe themselves to be anything they want. a meet and great is just that to meet and see what is real. It would be good to know before time that just because we meet we are not jumping into bed after coffee. Unless the friendship and understanding of each other has been worked out on line and now it time to meet and see if the picture match the real person also. ild have to say meet and greets could be a very odd thing for both but respect and trueth is the key.
That is all true. How are you.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/3/2018 11:45 am
    Quoting HollyChatsNJ:
    For a few years I was a hostess at a place called "The Hideaway South" in Northern VA just outside of DC.

    We've became known as the perfect spot on weekends for meet and greets.

    I have to admit most nights we were open the crowd was always respectable. Every now and than you do have those one or two that you wish were never there.

    The place was an outdoor BBQ/Cafe that was very LGBT/Straight friendly. No sex took place on the property, but it was the perfect spot to see if you clicked or not. We also had a lot of couples that were into swinging show up.

    Good times back than... I miss it.
That's sounds like a neat place. Wish it was still aound.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
2/3/2018 6:39 pm

 message me i'll tell you in private lolol


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/13/2018 10:46 pm

 I'm intrigued.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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