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Dammed if you do Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I have a smile, but it's not secret. I had a meet n greet the other day. One, I definitely should have missed. He messaged me that morning saying lunch at 11:45. I will let you know where. At 11:45 he's there, and he let's me know where. I took a wrong exit. There is a huge amount of construction. I had to go up a couple exits to turn around. By this time he's texting, where are you. Then he wants to cancel until he finds out how close I was. All he had to do was let me know 15 minutes before he got there, and I would have been there on time. He slammed me for that. I'm already thinking, what did I get myself into. I said I would have met him for a beer if he was pushed for time. He slammed me again. I should have left at that point. I learned within 2 minutes, I was dammed if I sat there with my mouth shut, and dammed if I said anything. When it came time to order, I thought fuck it, i ordered a glass of wine and a new York strip. Like I said a beer would have worked for me. My steak was cooked mediam well instead of medium rare. He was like there's nothing wrong with it. He says well my chicken might be overcooked too. He had me second guessing getting a recook. I politely asked for a recook, and the server took care of it, telling me she had made a mistake. He then goes oh, you were right I took up for you. He kept letting me know how many material possessions he had, and how many important people he knew. He kept asking when the last time I had sex. Right before he left, I said I had sex last night.......  ...he evidently thought I was desperate for some reason.The thing is, I did the night before, and I neglected to tell him I was having it again that same night. It went like this until he finally decided to leave. Yet, he let me know how crappy my life was when he finally left. I stayed and finished my wine. What pissed me off, was I was sitting there second guessing myself. Knowing no matter what I did, I was the bad guy. It just left a bad taste in my mouth, that's all. I hope he felt good about himself. I always say, things happen for a reason. We were meant to meet. Thank God it was only for a short time. Thank God not all men are like him. Have a great day. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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Patience is a sign of a great lover. Keep smiling!
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Patience is a sign of a great lover. Keep smiling! Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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wasnt yur fault dont give it a second thought
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Wow sounds like a few that I have met either by obligation or just in error. Yes some times it seems that we are suppose to be hookers lol w/o the pay. They want as there on point and willing to do what ever they wish. Mostly at no cost to them. Not even an ounce of free water. I learned to carry my cold bottle of water or put some vodka In my cranberry juice. So I can at least feel some joy and less tense that is meeting someone new. You're good, when he said cancel until he knew how close I was, I would've said oops just got a call, my booty call from last night wants to go to the movies. So I am sorry for wasting your precious time. But youre right not everyone is bad. I met quite a lot of nice guys, some I wish were still around. But have been lucky to move on to a better and real place. Happy wknd
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wasnt yur fault dont give it a second thought Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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7/16/2016 9:44 am |
Dump that loser.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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Wow sounds like a few that I have met either by obligation or just in error. Yes some times it seems that we are suppose to be hookers lol w/o the pay. They want as there on point and willing to do what ever they wish. Mostly at no cost to them. Not even an ounce of free water. I learned to carry my cold bottle of water or put some vodka In my cranberry juice. So I can at least feel some joy and less tense that is meeting someone new. You're good, when he said cancel until he knew how close I was, I would've said oops just got a call, my booty call from last night wants to go to the movies. So I am sorry for wasting your precious time. But youre right not everyone is bad. I met quite a lot of nice guys, some I wish were still around. But have been lucky to move on to a better and real place. Happy wknd Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I wanted to punch him. He said he's the one running the show, not me. I'm like, ok........thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Dump that loser.. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Hey luv, good thing that you were not packing, some times patience is not all is cracked up to be, but you sure are going straight to heaven. /d
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Hey luv, good thing that you were not packing, some times patience is not all is cracked up to be, but you sure are going straight to heaven. /d Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I think I'd have told him I just pulled a train in the alley- after he'd paid for the steak. Fucking dickhead. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I think I'd have told him I just pulled a train in the alley- after he'd paid for the steak. Fucking dickhead. .....thegrlsEnjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Thank god I don't run into too many..?...........thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Free steak and wine!!!!  Fuck that jerk!Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Lose the loser anytime you like to meet I would love to meet you Jackson Michigan Area 
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Lose the loser anytime you like to meet I would love to meet you Jackson Michigan Area Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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