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Pet Names or Terms of Endearment
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Pet Names or Terms of Endearment There are certain 'pet names' that I just don't like: 'honey' 'darling ' 'sweetie' 'love' 'doll' I dislike them even more when some random person, includes them in an introductory email 'to' me, or in a comment on one of my blogs or on one of my pics. Seriously? You don’t know me and you are tossing them around so freely. No doubt, probably using them with everyone they contact. Do you really think it's going to make me feel 'special'? Usually, ‘pet names’ are used as something special between people in a romantic relationship to create an ‘us’ feeling. I kind of cringe when I see others using them in their communications. Unless there is some kind of offline link between them, they are just co-existing on this make-believe island. However, I will admit, there is one 'pet name' that 'gets to me' anytime it's used, especially when it is unexpected. I have no idea when or how it started but being called Sunshine just about makes me melt and leaves a huge smile on my face. It always makes me think of this great song: Ain't No Sunshine Ain't no sunshine when she's gone It's not warm when she's away Ain't no sunshine when she's gone And she's always gone too long Anytime she goes away Wonder this time where she's gone Wonder if she's gone to stay Ain't no sunshine when she's gone And this house just ain't no home Anytime she goes away And I know, I know, I know, I know I know, I know, I know, I know, I know I know, I know, I know, I know, I know I know, I know, I know, I know, I know I know, I know, I know, I know, I know I know, I know Hey, I oughta leave young thing alone But ain't no sunshine when she's gone Ain't no sunshine when she's gone Only darkness every day Ain't no sunshine when she's gone And this house just ain't no home Anytime she goes away Anytime she goes away Anytime she goes away Anytime she goes away Songwriters: Bill Withers © Universal Music Publishing Group I don't want nor expect to be suddenly flooded with messages calling me 'Sunshine'. Those that matter, understand the impact it has on me and when 'to' use it.   |
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I am so sorry my friend I had no idea you didn't like terms of endearment words. I call everyone hun, or darlin. So I am sorry if it offended you in any way. And I am with you about being called something like that when you don't know the person. I love this song, my hubby sings it at Karaoke, and he's a great singer, always makes me smile too. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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So my question to you is: other than your name, what do you like to be called or enjoy calling someone else?
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8/1/2020 2:52 pm |
I don't have any pet names, but I remember being on the extension and listening to an insurance lady patronizing my ex and calling her "hun" when I cut her off and chewed her out and called HER "hun" at every opportunity.
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I'm not a fan of the random pet names or terms of endearment, either. One of the people I work with recently called me "sunshine". I laughed and told her "Yup. That's me. Miss Sunshine....with a side of lightning bolt to zap someone's ass". She was laughing and nodding. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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I am so sorry my friend I had no idea you didn't like terms of endearment words. I call everyone hun, or darlin. So I am sorry if it offended you in any way. And I am with you about being called something like that when you don't know the person. I love this song, my hubby sings it at Karaoke, and he's a great singer, always makes me smile too. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
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lil mama is my pet name that i call my wife
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As long as a pet name someone gives me is sincere I good with it.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I hope you have someone special who can call you that.
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reminds me of that billy jack movie with tom laughlin where the badguy rubs flour on the lil girls face and billy says..this girl so special to us that we call her our ray of sunshine and when i see her like this it just makes me wanna...then he whoops ass...know the movie? woop woop
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8/1/2020 7:27 pm |
I am single here with no kids and am here looking to get to know a caring loyal and honest man to get to know each other and see how life hold for us And you can text me on two zero nine two one five five three four three .. I hope to hear from you soon
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my new old gf calls me J .A. always has dont know why but initials it is her name is short so i called her lise at times now. We had a funny exchange and i said you got it going on like stacys mom , she said just call me stacy . so now I do or stace new pet name .
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I hate being called "baby", it's so generic. But, if someone were to call me "my love" and actually mean it.....
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Absolutely right on the subject of terms of endearment having been overused and burned in the process, my lady This definitely leaves some special terms, only a significant other can , and often uses in mutual affection Maybe it's the palpable lack of it, that deteterriorates them more... Cheers ... ( how about "pumpkin" ? )  P
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That song is I believe the most covered song of all time. I think you are right terms of endearment are for use in a special relationship.
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What's bad about the pet names that you mentioned is that they get used automatically without really thinking about whether they are appropriate. If someone is going to call you a pet name, then they should put some thought into it so it will be meaningful. And besides, those pet names have some bad baggage attached to them. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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hmmm... reeeelee.... 😊 🌴🍷🍷❗😎
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I don't have any pet names, but I remember being on the extension and listening to an insurance lady patronizing my ex and calling her "hun" when I cut her off and chewed her out and called HER "hun" at every opportunity.  . It can occur in all kinds of situations and makes me uncomfortable.
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I'm not a fan of the random pet names or terms of endearment, either. One of the people I work with recently called me "sunshine". I laughed and told her "Yup. That's me. Miss Sunshine....with a side of lightning bolt to zap someone's ass". She was laughing and nodding.
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lil mama is my pet name that i call my wife
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As long as a pet name someone gives me is sincere I good with it.
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I hope you have someone special who can call you that.
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reminds me of that billy jack movie with tom laughlin where the badguy rubs flour on the lil girls face and billy says..this girl so special to us that we call her our ray of sunshine and when i see her like this it just makes me wanna...then he whoops ass...know the movie?
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my new old gf calls me J .A. always has dont know why but initials it is her name is short so i called her lise at times now. We had a funny exchange and i said you got it going on like stacys mom , she said just call me stacy . so now I do or stace new pet name .
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I hate being called "baby", it's so generic. But, if someone were to call me "my love" and actually mean it.....
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