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An Open Letter.....  

SUGARRGERL7 57F
42 posts
11/25/2014 8:58 pm
An Open Letter.....


Dear Married/Attached Man Contacting Me,

So, I am Not A Cuckoo Bird.... Google it....
I Don't Do Drama, PERIOD....
To Me, Drama is a Married, Attached Man On The Downlow and Seeking to Have Sex WITH OUT His Significant Others Knowledge Prior to or Afterwards.
IF THIS IS YOU.... Let Me Plainly Explain Some Things to You....
Women Can Smell Another Woman On You, Those Juices and Scent and Sweat and Etc from Having Sex, Linger and Mingle and Hang in the Damndest Places.... You Would be Surprised..... Even After a Thorough Shower. OR, Even after a Thorough Text and Phone and Internet Purge....etc. Women will Smell ANOTHER Woman. And that is Not just a Physical Thing. You may even Get Away with the Situation for a While... Still May be Getting Away With It Now as You happen to read this....
But Let Me Also Put This Line in the Sand for You ....

If You Lie to Me and Contact Me Saying that You are Single, Available, Open, and or Have the Circumstances to Play and Date Me and Have Sex, and I Do just That, Date, Play, and/or Have Sex with You, and Your Significant Other Somehow or Another Contacts Me saying Other Wise, and I Find Out that You are a Liar and Lieing, I Will Out You To Your Significant Other COMPLETELY. Period.

So, it is BEST That You Don't Contact Me to BEGIN with.

"Men" Believe That They Will Get Away With this Kind of Nonsense... Trust Me, You Won't. Nor Will I be complicet in Helping You to Do So.

I. DO. NOT. DEAL. WITH. BULLSHIT. HORNDOG. NONSENSE. Do Not Bring Your Drama To My DOOR. Period.
Yo Have Been WARNED!!


And The Reason I am Stating This and Adressing This, AGAIN, is because I have Had Issues of Recent With This Very Situation, AGAIN.... And Every time I have had This Issue Come Up -(about 18 times since I Started Purposefully Connecting/Dating Socially Online in 2008/07)- I have Held to This Policy and Informed Men of This upon First Meet, "IF You are Lieing to Me Just To Fuck, or for ANY Other Reason, ALL DEALS/TRUST ARE OFF." In the past dealings, When Their Significant Other has Contacted Me, and Shared with Me Some of the Truth, I First of All Re-Assure Them that I am STD Free, & Not Trying to 'Steal Their Man', and Let Them Know Further Details. All of The Details That They Wanted.....Including Texts, Pics, Profile Names etc....


SO, Not to come across as "bitter online ranting Psycho Bitch", But I am Saying This Plain, in Plain Language... This is Not a Position You Want to Put Me in, So Do Not.
Move along....

Sincerely,
Sugar


ohsodirty2 67M
949 posts
3/7/2015 8:56 pm

bullshit abounds on these sites which screws it up for REAL people trying to connect with other REAL people i live by Honesty is the best policy every day


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