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the velvet rope  

remedyF 49F
1030 posts
6/20/2012 6:42 pm
the velvet rope


i just blocked the 100th person from viewing my profile ..

what gets you a permanent spot behind the velvet rope here?

well, let's see ..

- stalkerish behavior
ie .. lots of rapid fire emails in a row ..

'hey what are you doing?'
'are you on now?'
a few minutes later .. 'how abt now?'
and so on and so on ..

- you clearly didn't read my profile
ie .. 'hey, i'm going partying @ so-and-so club. wanna meet me and we'll go clubbing?'
ok, so #1 i'm Not looking for a drinking buddy
and #2 i state that very Clearly on my profile ..

- it's clear to me that you don't have a keen grasp on the English language
example: 'are you sure .. you don't date married ppl?' uhmmm .. Yeah .. pretty sure ..
i mean, i could be Wrong here .. But .. i /think/ i'd Know ..
and No, that's Not a Judgment on anyone
my reason(s) for this are Purely and Entirely Selfish: i Don't Do Drama

'are you sure .. ??' abt ~anything on my profile .. also Means to me you Don't 'get' me already ..
ie .. i'm a litigation paralegal (see: generally Very Specific and Serious on word choices .. it's kinda my job)
and while i do Not specifically say on my profile that i'm a litigation paralegal, it does say i work in the law and if you read it, if Nothing Else comes across, it's Loud and it's Clear that i am (good, bad or indifferent) a Very Decisive person ..
for anyone to ask me (after reading my profile) 'are you sure ..?' ..
well, like i say, that just Means (to me) you don't 'get' me
((Already))
And what Does /That/ Mean ??
it's Means: you don't 'Get me' either ..

what abt you? do you use the Block Member feature?

Guys:
what motivates you to Block someone?


Girls:
do you think us girl ppl Block members faster than the guys here?


Just Curious .. Do Tell ..




music is what feelings sound like.


remedyF 49F
680 posts
6/20/2012 8:54 pm

lol @ shyram:

yup, i Agree ..
i can't decide if i'm proud or embarrassed that i'm 'only' @ 100 .. lol ..
somehow i seems like i could easily double, triple that #, as you said ..




music is what feelings sound like.


mocetar7 54M
1940 posts
6/21/2012 12:44 am

64?? 100??

O. M. G. ..... It's the first time I'm hearing of such numbers! I never realized that there are so many crazy priks out there....

In this corner of the world, the gals here are more low key actually, and as such I've not had any opportunity till date to block anyone. Most of the girls here just give up after a while when they see they're not getting any responses; kinda polite in a way, innit?

But the girls here have blocked some persistent pests, though they are no where near both you or Shyram's numbers....

Interesting analogy of the "velvet rope"....

And being involved with law.... makes you all the more desirable in my book...


DarkNJPassenger 46M
403 posts
6/21/2012 3:52 am

I never block for rudeness or ignorance - lord knows I'm full of both, so I wouldn't begrudge anyone else for my own short comings.

I think the few things I would block for are obvious sales pitches for porn sites or scam artists, and sheer stupidity, i.e. real fucked up grammer or constant txt speak, people who just don't get the obvious point, and just general retardedness....oh, and anyone who repeatedly asks me to suck their cock without at least offering dinner or a candy bar or anything...LOL.

..I can't think of anything else off the top of my head.


WilderThanU2 63F
2740 posts
6/23/2012 7:51 am

I liberally use the block feature....oh, yes I do!

Welcome to the blogs


remedyF 49F
680 posts
6/23/2012 2:57 pm

moce:
$5 words make you hott, do they?


jurZkid:
you mean a blowjob's Not enough?? - i gotta buy you something too ?!

how do, Wilder ..
welcome to my little page ..



music is what feelings sound like.


mocetar7 54M
1940 posts
6/26/2012 1:03 am

$5 words do indeed make me hot, especially if the deliverer is not just an attractive package but has the brains to enthrall too!

There's a certain charm within folks who have to work with a language; they are rather more adept at weighing the words being used....


remedyF 49F
680 posts
6/26/2012 7:15 pm

moce:
i'm the same way. ppl who know their way around words get me hott, too.
intelligence is tres sexyyy ..




music is what feelings sound like.


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