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Blogs > altonslut77 > OMG why is it so hard?

Its a Friday night and I am stuck at home with my husband.  

altonslut77 46F  
36 posts
9/3/2010 10:19 pm

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5/28/2011 6:06 pm
Its a Friday night and I am stuck at home with my husband.

So I know that no one wants to hear this from a girl. I know I get like 40 emails a day from guys wanting to get laid and that is part of the problem. Why is it soooo hard to find someone locally. Why do I keep getting emails from Spain and Italy and shit. When someone somewhat locally contacts me 9 times out of 10 they are totally NOT my type. I really do require all your teeth. I don't care if they are purchased or real just have some teeth in your head.
Don't be a fat, bald old man.
Don't email me with "hey babe lets hook up" with a pic of your penis.
Don't email me with one a one line message.
Do put some thought into what you are gonna say to me.
Do have some sort of personality.
Do be LOCAL and I mean within 20 miles of here. Not Chicago.
Just my rant for the day.
Weeding through all these emails is getting on my nerves.
I am not all focused on looks. Personality is the key. If anyone has seen my husband I really don't care about looks. (hey if you are good looking that is a plus) If you cant put together complete sentences and don't have a sense of humor I cant see us hooking up no matter how cute you are.

l0gghauzer 44M

9/5/2010 11:41 am

 3) Don't email me with one a one line message.

Depends on the person's social skills. For many, Senior Sizzle is an alternative to triggering their anxiety and exposing their lacking social skills. Regardless, it's perfectly understandable that a one-line message is not going to get the person anywhere--it shows a lack of effort, a bit of apathy, and...yes, a lack of social skills.

4) Do put some thought into what you are gonna say to me.

See #3.

5) Do have some sort of personality.

I don't want to put words into altonslut77's mouth, but typically when this is said, it usually means "Be something resembling an alpha male. Take charge and be confident, even if it borders on being an asshole--it's better than being the nice guy that doesn't take charge and is afraid of doing something to offend."

So really, something in the middle may be best: take charge without "Hey baby, wanna fuck this foot-long!," but have something more to offer than "Hehe, I like you a lot..."

6) Do be LOCAL and I mean within 20 miles of here. Not Chicago.

One thing that seems to happen is that people will get into the mentality of "crap...I narrowed it down to much, let's widen the criteria a bit." Then all of a sudden, people are taking to people hundreds of miles away and trying to make it work, when it usually doesn't.


l0gghauzer 44M

9/5/2010 11:40 am

 Agrees with Well_Hung_STLGuy and tallshaq2000.

To add, there are also a lot of guys that don't have all of these problems, but are not the typical "Alpha Male" that women envision. In fact, many are the "Omega Male" that, at first, don't seem to click right away (admittedly, I'm one of those. ). One of the reasons is because of a law that's existed in nature since the beginning of time: men court women. Women don't court men.

However, with a (reasonably mature and mentally stable) Omega, a lot of the drawbacks mentioned by altonslut77 are either isolated or nonexistent:

1) Don't be a fat, bald old man.

They're everywhere. They're looking for something as well as everyone else...

2) Don't email me with "hey babe lets hook up" with a pic of your penis.

...and this happens because people can actually get away with this at times. Combine that with not giving a rat's ass about rejection, and it then becomes more of a gambling game. Of course this shows a lack of understanding of what makes women tick vs. what makes men tick--if a woman e-mails a man pics of her tits, ass, and pussy, then a man will, 99.9% of the time, not only express no offense to this, but think "I'M IN, WHOHOOOOOOO!!!!"

On the other hand, the opposite scenario is dramatically different: women are attracted by more than just a pic of our junk: we need to be able to trigger emotions in them that don't get triggered very often, and a dick is a dime a dozen (yes, even the porn star dicks).


horny196364 60M

9/4/2010 5:13 am

 love to chat with you sometime


orca694u 66M

9/3/2010 11:08 pm

 I am really surprised you are having a difficult time finding someone to hookup and play with? You are a very sexy, vibrant, hot babe! Wish you the best of luck!!


lonelymale3869 54M
Ask me for a photo

9/3/2010 11:00 pm

 Damm that sucks! Its friday and I'm stuck at home with my two kids!
At least u have a better chance of getting laid!


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