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Another Age Old Question
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Another Age Old Question Over the weekend I had a discussion about how I experience orgasms different ways at different times. Apparently, some women experience theirs the same way all the time. Which must be the case for the wife of the gentleman I was with Friday. He wasn't sure that I experienced orgasm, when in fact, I had several. Which do you think is better? Is it better for the woman to have one very intense orgasm rather quickly, OR, for her to have a series of smaller less intense orgasms over a extended period of time. Is what feels best to her, also what is most arrousing for the man? I think we link orgasm with how well we are performing, and that is not necessarily true. There are so many factors that contribute to our sexual response and climax. Sometimes, things aren't what they seem to be. "Don't count the days, make the days count" |
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Just recently...in the past few years. I met someone that can edge me so well that i can have very intense multiple internal orgasm over and over. But she is the only person I have ever had that connection with. On the other hand she as very intense multiple squirting orgasms and I must admit I do love those intense moments. But by far the most enjoyable are the slow snuggled, locked in a kiss, souls tangled together, dancing quivers!!!  I creatively come up with uncreative things - What the blog was I thinking? CLICK HERE to join the sexy Half Naked Wednesday group (HNW group)...Caution: They get a bit creative!
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I get pleasure from knowing the woman is having a good time and when that red flush starts to spread across her face and neck, I know I must have got it right. It is also a turn on if moans a lot.
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Some women find it easy to orgasm and have learned many ways to do it. Others find it hard to orgasm and may rely on one method that works consistently for them. Mutual pleasure is an important part of the experience for me, so orgasm for both people is important but not necessarily required. As soon as it becomes required, then how do things end when things are not working right and an orgasm is not going to happen. Faking it can be the tactful way to say, "I am ready to do something different now, such as cuddle or sleep." I prefer the honesty of just saying that rather than faking a finale. However, not everyone can accept those words without feeling inadequate or rejected.
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8/12/2014 8:03 pm |
the sound of a woman climaxing turns me on more than anything...whatever works for her as far as enjoying, just let me hear your pleasure 
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I've been referred to as a "stealth cummer" before. Sometimes you're just so into it that it's all completely within you. To others it may appear to be a paralytic gran mal. But the fireworks inside belay that appearance. Too bad they can't see the show behind the eyelids. Or can they? ~~~~~~~~~ The lover you'll never not wish you didn't have - or did... I forget.... what was your name again.... look...a squirrel
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