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Different degrees of separation
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Different degrees of separation I will have been separated for nine years on March 2nd 2018. During this time I have not talked to my wife and have only seen her once from a distance. I recently had a conversation with a member from this site about my marital status. She kept emphasizing that I was technically still married and that I was cheating if I had sex with other women. She also inquired as to why I didn't just get a divorce. I let this member know that if I had any intentions on getting back together with her that I would have at least talked to her since I left. I haven't gotten a divorce because the step would benefit financially if something happened to me. Also, I paid for everything that had anything to do with our wedding. If she wants a divorce before the step are grown she can pay for it. My question for anyone that cares to comment is..... Are there different degrees of separation to you?     |
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Divorce is expensive I know I paid....lol. There are definitely degrees of separation. I have chatted with " we are separated but I still live at home but sleep in a separate bed" to men in the same situation as you. If it works for both of you then there is no need to change. You don't need a piece of paper to say you are married or divorced both are just reasons for people to make money off of you. The only time it would be come an issue is if either of you decided to live with someone else. Then the insurance/financials can get muddy.
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Change your marital status to single, and do away with bitches , who won't fuck anyway, ruining your mellow.
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There are degrees to everything if we want to be dicks about it. I'm wondering why it was any of her business why you hadn't filed for divorce. I've never been married and I know how freaking expensive divorce is. Plus you're being a decent guy in taking care of the step-kids the way you are.
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Nothing is black and white . . . uhmmm well you know what I mean  . There are varying degrees in just about everything on Earth. People who don't know/understand that aren't worth the effort. Well, unless she gives great head.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Thanks B. 
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Sure are friend. It's kinda the same (or opposite) as 2 people who can be common law married by just living together but not actually married, you can be married but not actually together.
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Also, so long as your wife is okay with you fucking other women, it's not cheating. It's an open marriage 😊 She has a live in boyfriend. She didn't ask me if it was okay. Not like she could if she wanted to anyway.
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Divorce is expensive I know I paid....lol. There are definitely degrees of separation. I have chatted with " we are separated but I still live at home but sleep in a separate bed" to men in the same situation as you. If it works for both of you then there is no need to change. You don't need a piece of paper to say you are married or divorced both are just reasons for people to make money off of you. The only time it would be come an issue is if either of you decided to live with someone else. Then the insurance/financials can get muddy. Trump and his wife sleep in separate beds. She lives with someone, it doesn't affect me in any way financially. Any insurance money would go to the kids when they turn 18.
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Change your marital status to single, and do away with bitches , who won't fuck anyway, ruining your mellow. I think I'll keep the profile the way it is. I have thought about doing that years ago but decided that honesty is a better trait. My mellow was sufficiently ruined until I left her. Got it back on track the same day though.
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My thoughts exactly. I'm not the one that benefits financially either.
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if I fall head over heels in love with The King and want to pursue something serious then no deal... You falling head over heels in love with The King is something serious. What deal are you referring to? if I want to just fuck you, throw you out of my house afterward, and that's it... then sure why not. Fuck me and throw me out afterwards? Are you even capable of such a thing? Why not what?
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HAHA!!! I think I'll keep the profile the way it is. I have thought about doing that years ago but decided that honesty is a better trait. My mellow was sufficiently ruined until I left her. Got it back on track the same day though. They're just going to bang you one or two times anyway, they don't need to know your personal business of being married, but separated...supporting a woman and some other guys problems. That's not going to get you laid. ........Just change it to "Single", and score more.
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There are degrees to everything if we want to be dicks about it. I'm wondering why it was any of her business why you hadn't filed for divorce. I've never been married and I know how freaking expensive divorce is. Plus you're being a decent guy in taking care of the step-kids the way you are. She probably gave thought to having sex with me. My divorce wouldn't be that expensive. For the record I'm not taking care of them financially, it's just that if I die they will get a nice chunk of cash. I keep track of all of them just to make sure they aren't doing bad. Her boyfriend seems to be a good provider. Not better than I was but you know...... Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
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Nothing is black and white . . . uhmmm well you know what I mean . There are varying degrees in just about everything on Earth. People who don't know/understand that aren't worth the effort. Well, unless she gives great head. and swallows. 
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HAHA!!! and swallows. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Being separated is still being married. After reading your comment, why did I know that if I looked at your profile I would see an X by race? Thanks for stopping by.
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decided that honesty is a better trait. .... No... Being honest chases away too much pussy. They're just going to bang you one or two times anyway, they don't need to know your personal business of being married, but separated...supporting a woman and some other guys problems. That's not going to get you laid. ........Just change it to "Single", and score more. No... Being honest chases away too much pussy. What do I have to put on the profile to chase away more pussy? I don't even want to log in some days. This shit is like a job sometimes. They're just going to bang you one or two times anyway, they don't need to know your personal business of being married, but separated supporting a woman and some other guys problems. Offline my situation hasn't been a barrier to getting laid. I don't support them but would if I felt it was necessary. My step kids were never a problem, I liked them more than they wife. That's not going to get you laid. ........Just change it to "Single", and score more. I don't want to score more, I want to score less. Getting laid is not a problem. As a matter of fact it's too easy. I need a challenge.
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Well yeah. It ain't great if she don't swallow. I don't really care what they do with it as long as they don't let any get on me. Ewww
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HAHA!!! I love when you comment on my posts G. No... Being honest chases away too much pussy. What do I have to put on the profile to chase away more pussy? I don't even want to log in some days. This shit is like a job sometimes. They're just going to bang you one or two times anyway, they don't need to know your personal business of being married, but separated supporting a woman and some other guys problems. Offline my situation hasn't been a barrier to getting laid. I don't support them but would if I felt it was necessary. My step kids were never a problem, I liked them more than they wife. That's not going to get you laid. ........Just change it to "Single", and score more. I don't want to score more, I want to score less. Getting laid is not a problem. As a matter of fact it's too easy. I need a challenge. I liked them more than they wife. ... She was counting on that. I need a challenge. .... "Married , looking for more hos"...That'll make it a challenge.
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I don't care that you are separated. I just want more of that BBC
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I don't care that you are separated. I just want more of that BBC 
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You have your reasons for not getting a divorce. It is no relationship so it is not cheating on your wife. Visit my Blog  
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You have your reasons for not getting a divorce. It is no relationship so it is not cheating on your wife. Sie hat einen Freund, das ist mir egal. Vielen Dank für Ihren Kommentar.
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I lived with her for two months after I told her I was leaving so she could save money or find a roommate. What a nightmare. I think I made a better parent than she did but they weren't my kids so I couldn't take them with me. Thanks for commenting sexy.
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