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Bi or Bi-curious? That is the question  

strawberycouple 53M/51F
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3/4/2010 3:40 pm
Bi or Bi-curious? That is the question

This goes out to all the confidently open bi ladies.

When do we as openly bi ladies say enough is enough? When do we say we are no longer going to entertain bi-curious single women or couples with a bi-curious female? All you so called bi-curious ladies, get your deal together. Your either bi or your not, there is no bi-curious.

I used to believe it was my duty as an openly bi lady to help others in the sisterhood free them selves from the confines of the closet. However I am now seriously of the opinion, if you call your self bi-curious, your on your own. If a woman is above a certain age and all of a sudden thinks hmmmm I'm curious and want to try some<b> girl on girl </font></b>she is either trying to save a marriage, spice up a marriage or trying to please a male partner. It doesn't really matter the reasons you are calling yourself bi-curious, the chances are your not bi at all your simply bored with your current sexual situation.

As a confident and openly bi lady I can say I never called myself bi curious. I simply called myself bi inexperienced pryor to my first<b> girl on girl </font></b>romp. I'm honest enough to say that long before I lost my virginity I was sexually attracted to both men and women. I in fact was bisexual before I was old enough to understand what bisexual was.

I don't mean for this to come off as a rant. Umm, well yes I do because ranting amuses me and in this moment I feel like being amused.

katiejcpl 66M/59F
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3/22/2010 9:04 pm

 Hmmm!! All my life I wondered if myself as the female could have that same connection I have allways had with men but with a woman!! So I would say Bi Curious is the description for it!! Mind you it's very hard to find that female that gives me the rush of a male!! But we have found a few!! And I agree with you totally strawberry!! There are alot of cpls out there who only seek to please there partners fantacies!! And in my own personal words your not Bi Curious until you lick a lady freind. If theres no passion amongst the Ladies whats the point?? As for the Mr's of cpls seriously what man in there right mind doesn't want a 3 some with a lady freind and there wife!! And then of coarse theres Bi where the lady perfers the ladies only over men!! If thats the case why bother including men at all? I like both sexes as well!! Nothing better then 2 deserts on the table!! And nothing worse then getting hooked up with a Bi Curious pretender.
Lixxxs K&J


beemergal69 54F

4/3/2010 10:20 pm

 Myself I would consider Bi Curious. The curious part to me means going on both sides of the fence. For I enjoy both men and woman more woman then men. As for the propaganda of just doing it to please your spouse. I do agree on this. I recieve messages all the time from couples where that has been the case. They wanted to see if there wife was Bi at all. And being Bi is not something learned,it's about being yourself. I would and allways have wanted the female to enjoy me as sexually as I enjoy her. That is the true act of being Bi period. If a person or couple is not sure. It is not my job to interfere. For I do not wish to train anyone and never have. And never will.


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