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How to improve your chances(just my thoughts)  

MsModa 55F  
255 posts
1/8/2010 11:58 am
How to improve your chances(just my thoughts)

Well this is probably in vain but I feel it must be said, I've ready many blogs and emails that guys don't have much luck on here.I can say there are a few that have had luck because I was the one who met them >So I would say the problem doesn't lie with the ladies as often as it does the men.Here are a few dos and dont's that may improve your luck.

First and foremost read the profile of your quarry,Get the mood of the profile is she blunt and aggressive or is she more subtle and demure.This may be a clue as to how to communicate to her.Remember though, even if she sounds like a two dollar she still likes to hear nice things maybe put in a more sexual tone .Also dont offer sex acts she didn't include in her bio if she states that she hasn't tried anal don't offer it.iI MAY SCARE HER OFF !!You can offer your likes once she is in your confidence.

Second if she has blogs read through them you can really get into a persons mind by seeing what they are willing to put in print.They often include fantasy and real experience as well as turn ons and turn offs

So now you have read their profile and their blogs you may have a better understanding of your object of desire. and can use this information to begin dialog with her. This also makes it harder for you to write inane things in your email that she may have already written would be an automatic rejection.

Now send her and email ,think of a nice opening attention grabber subject and remember if your asking for a meet a pic does wonders.Its amazing how many guys say I'm in your area lets meet tonight ,but no pic on profile or attachment.And a pet peeve of mine is "contact me outside of Senior Sizzle"Let's correspond here first then maybe will exchange my other personal accounts. some of the fun of this site is the ability to cut off communication if it gets to weird.I've given my phone no# out once and now I get a phone call 2 to 3 times a week from him for the last 2 years.and if I block him he calls from different no#.

Do not try to get a response by challenging her or telling her she is all talk if she doesn't take you up on her offer.She might not be attracted to you .

If she is on web cam don't ask her to join you for private she is on this site for a reason and is entertaining others.so don't ask her to hang up on all the people enjoying her show.Compliment her or her actions on cam.don't be discouraged if she doesn't answer your im"s a women on this site on web cam can get over 1000 viewers thats a lot of Im-ing .

Waiting for a response,if she doesn't respond to your emails don't get upset it may be that she is overwhelmed with mail as gold member I had 1236 emails in my box now as a standard member I have 400-500 and can only answer about ten a day(Senior Sizzle RESTRICTIONS).So make sure they are good ones worthy of a response.

So I'm hoping that you take some of these suggestions to heart before setting after your quest.And if you ladies or gents have other suggestions please leave your comments.

P.S> don't give up guys do meet women on here some have met me and had me lol



will2ski 48M
5 posts
11/25/2019 5:04 pm

This is a great blog!


ShowMeM0re1 49M
64 posts
11/27/2017 9:38 pm

Thanks for the info about the site... There were quite a few things about it that I didn't know - for example, the restriction of answering only 10 emails per day.

You are smart and beautiful! What else can a guy ask for, huh?


bigton29 62M
3 posts
2/23/2014 11:54 am

Well said MsModa. I agree entirely. You should read and understand what a person is seeking. Use the site for what it was intended.. As a tool to meet people!!..


Tiew_Tukwan 69M
219 posts
1/9/2014 9:00 am

Your photos on here are really beautiful, SOOOO HOT. Thxs for the advice, I take instructions well...!! BTW, what ladies clothing stores do you shop at regularly...lol...!! You must have lived an exciting live so far, keep up the SUPER SeXXXy blogs and photos. Again, I would LOVE to join you in a Gangbang or anything that PERK'S your interest.... Tiew


rm_KLModernMan 48M
50 posts
2/5/2011 7:28 pm

Well written advise MsModa.

I've met some very decent and nice ladies through Senior Sizzle, one of whom I'm dating for the past 3 years already. Things that make differences:

1. Pictures, of you, not of the little guy standing at attention
2. Good writeup and language skills
3. Honest about yourself, without exaggeration.

Or so I've been told.


erotickisserinva 50M

1/16/2011 11:22 am

Women are just so hard to read. It's like a foreign language


rm_norajane94 41F
15 posts
11/3/2010 4:52 pm

you are beautiful

loves & kisses
NJ94


Midevil2006 45M
32 posts
10/10/2010 3:42 pm

I just read your blog for the first time and I gotta give you some kudos (as if you don't get enough already...lol)! I like a lot of what you have to say. I'm kinda new to writing in my blog, but in a way I think it's kinda self-theraputic since most of the time finding a woman (on this site) who willing to carry on a on-going sensual (yet mature) conversation can be challenging you know?

Anyway, keep doing what you do MsModa, giving advice in the process. Whether most women like to admit it or not, WE (men) can learn a thing or two and actually RUN with it! Hopefully women can too! *wink*

Keep it sexy!


kink4pink 53M
5 posts
2/18/2010 9:05 am

Very nice dialogue and oh so interesting. You are quite the writer.


PUREEXOTIC73 51M/49F

1/9/2010 6:16 am

what else needs to said... thanx Moda!


bs53961 61M

1/8/2010 6:43 pm

Moda... You have one of the best sites on Senior Sizzle Have Fun


MsModa 55F  
53 posts
1/8/2010 2:13 pm

    Quoting jasper2you:
    Not only are you one of the sexiest ladies here, you also
    offer great advice. Still looking for you around dressing rooms.
    lol.
keep looking I'm always shopping


MsModa 55F  
53 posts
1/8/2010 2:12 pm

    Quoting eyemagearts:
    Beautiful, sexy, and intelligent!! And Great Advice too!
Thank you you probably don't need the advice


eyemagearts 60M

1/8/2010 1:18 pm

Beautiful, sexy, and intelligent!! And Great Advice too!


jasper2you 53M
15 posts
1/8/2010 12:36 pm

Not only are you one of the sexiest ladies here, you also
offer great advice. Still looking for you around dressing rooms.
lol.


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