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Birthdays  

hotmamabear 60F  
564 posts
12/19/2013 10:42 am
Birthdays


When you're a , birthdays are magical and exciting ... as you grow you start to reach those memorable milestones 13 ......finally a ! 16 .....yipee I can drive! 18 ....Wow, I'm an adult! 21 ....Let's get our drink on!

Then all of a sudden you're reaching 30 and wondering where all those years went. Birthdays aren't quite as anticipated and celebrated a little differently at this age.

Then one day you wake up and 50 is staring you in the face. You realize you have become your parents, even though you swore you wouldn't. Your bones creak a bit more and muscles ache, takes a few minutes to get going in the morning.

I guess you can say your life is half over at this age. I'm facing this milestone in just a few short weeks. It has had me scared for months, actually since I turned 49 lol Not sure why, things will go on the same and I'm always saying age is just a number. But when it's your number, it seems to make a difference. This year has been weird for me, lots of changes, new things, some good, some not so much......I wanted to hide from this milestone, but after careful thought and a trampled heart, I've decided that I have to make 50 the best year of my life! I want to do the things that are on my bucket list, I want to put me first in all areas of my life. I can't worry about every one else and how they feel or what they want. Now, that doesn't mean I'm going to be rude, hurtful or forgetful of any one, just that I need to take care of me first in order to be happy.

So, here's to 50! Bring it on Bitch, I'm ready for ya!

travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
12/20/2013 6:20 pm

Or maybe just a party in my pants?

Embrace the suck


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
12/19/2013 3:20 pm

So does this mean there's gonna be a party?

Embrace the suck


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
12/19/2013 12:04 pm

Cheer up HotMomaBear 50 is just a number, take it from someone who's been there. Scared the crap out of me as well when I was about to turn fifty. You know what? The earth didn't crumble, the sky didn't fall and I was the same old me as I was when I was 49. There is life after 50, and you can have as much or as little fun as you want to, and if anyone gives you grief just pull the age card on them. It works everytime. LOL


hotmamabear replies on 12/19/2013 7:54 pm:
Thanks You made me smile!

aman4u1962a 61M
1979 posts
12/19/2013 10:56 am

50 is one of those milestone birthdays. Time for that colonoscopy, eligible for AARP membership LOL.

Having crossed that threshold a few years ago myself I can tell you it's not all bad. There is nothing to fear.

You will still be just as hot of a mama bear at 50, 51, ... as you were at 49, 48, ... Embrace your maturity and the wisdom that comes with it.


hotmamabear replies on 12/19/2013 7:55 pm:
Thanks, it's nice to hear that

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