86 posts 9/19/2009 9:08 pm
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The Sex Vow
I've been called a lot of names. At the very beginning, I was called a virgin. And for a while I was a newbie. Consider it right to say I was able to fumble through a basketful of should-nots during this infancy phase.
Then comes the passable , a phase where I was doing a lot of exploring. What works and what won't. What prolongs and what expedite. What could intensify and amplify, and what would be considered mediocre.
But that was such a long time ago it seems medieval. And here's what I vow NEVER to EVER do again in my encounters with women. I'll call it my sex vow.
I Surreal Tantra, vow to :
 Kiss first. Not heading straight for the main course. The only place my hands should be is on her neck and above. Till she show me the signs to proceed.
To kiss the way she likes it. It's not difficult to find out how she likes it. Consider it safe to say most women do not need me to floss their teeth with my tongue or try to impress her how fast I can flicker and how deep it can go. At least not in her mouth.
 To be clean shave. When I have a porcupine strap on my chin raking across her face and thighs repeatedly, it's not pleasure but pain. It's not passion but avoidance from her. To be trim and neat. Its not sexy or sensual to have pubic hairs tickling her nose or have her spitting them out when she's there.
 Not blowing too hard in her ear. Some idiots in school used to tell me girls like it. There is a difference between an erotic whisper, a sensual hum or a masculine grunt as compared to extinguishing the candles on my 40th birthday cake.
Not to ignore other parts of her body. Besides peaks and valleys and tunnels, every other inch of the female anatomy deserve tender loving care.
happyf; To treat both her breasts with equal respect and attention.
a)Not to be bias with one over the other.
b)Not to squeeze it like testing melons for ripeness.
c)No to bite her nipples like I'm trying to deflate her breast. d)Not to focus entirely on her nipples as she does have a whole breast. The top, the sides, the undersides and the areas around the nipple needs special loving too.
e)Not to twiddle her nipples voraciously like fine tuning a radio station.
;!; Not to touch her where she is most sensitive, until she's so moist and ready she begs me, or threaten to kill me if I don't.
happym; Not to be too obsess and impatient with gaining entry to her love canal like a dentist performing a root canal. For when it is really time, she will yearn for my royal entrance with open arms, open soul, and even forcibly me if I don't.
>>! Not to go too fast too soon. She don't need an industrial precision power tool in her. She needs to built up the momentum and intensity. To amplify every trust like it takes an eternity to completely fill her up and withdraw.
 Not to come too soon. ( Needless to say ). And not coming soon enough. Humping for an hour makes me feel like a sex god, but it makes her a sore and numb vagina. She don't need a marathon man.
 Never to ask her if she has come. Its like asking if she has just farted. She can never fake a real one and there's no such need.
\8 Never to nudge her head down. It's like a cavemen dragging his captive to his cave by her hair. Women hate to be forced into a eyeball-to-penis position. She will do so if and when she wants to.
Not taking reference and etiquette advice from porn movies. Not all women love a facial or have it all over their body. In reality, it could mean more laundry.
;!; Attempting anal and pretending it was an accident. That was such a cliche excuse.
 Not to thank her. It is not a charity event or a sympathy<b> fuck. </font></b>I shall always consider it my gift to her and our blessings to experience such a wonderful experience together.
The man who fails at sex is the one who goes about looking for women to make him feel good about himself.
The man who succeeds at sex is the one who goes about making women feel good about themselves.
So what do you think? I'd love to hear your views
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3366 posts 9/21/2009 10:35 am |
My view? So you've read and passed your theory lesson. So what's next?
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54 posts 9/23/2009 9:42 am |
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54 posts 9/23/2009 9:45 am |
muchas gracias... we're on the same wavelenght
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54 posts 9/23/2009 9:46 am |
Quoting rm_DevilCharmZ:
My view? So you've read and passed your theory lesson. So what's next?
Naturally .... will be Advance theory. Any suggestions? 
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