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The ugly truths about guys
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The ugly truths about guys This post is in response to a post i read on xinyue76's blog. I don't agree with some of her views in her recent post about guys. So here's my take from a truly authentic man. Her: 9/2/2009 1:08 pm 1. Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try. Me : Guys are emotional. It takes us a lot longer than you think to let you go because we are nursing our bruised egos. Give us another hot babe back to back and we'll be absolutely fine. Her: Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. Me : Guys flirt around all day, and before they sleep, they think about their conquest and their next move. Her : Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. Me : Agree to a certain extend. We like a woman's smile. We may go crazy over a woman's seductive smile if we're into them. But we definitely puke when we're not into them. Her : Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. Me : Authentic men don't have to do anything and girls will still notice them. Her : Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method. Me : Only insecure guys hate it. Authentic men listen to understand their woman better. Her : A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. Me : We hope you talk to more guys so you know how good we are. Her : Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. Me : Aren't we all the same? How do you reassure a man? Give him good emotionally charged sex and blow his mind every time. Her : Guys don't care how gorgeous you are, if you're a bitch Goodbye. Me : Agree. Her : Giving a guy a hanging message like 'You know what?!..uh...nevermind..' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. Me : Thank god you didn't bored me with what is not important. Her : Girls are guys' weaknesses. Me : I hate to admit it, but GOOD/Great sex are guys' weaknesses Her : If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. Me : Women need someone to listen to them. They don't need any advice when they share their problem. Guys don't tell you their problem. If they do, they must have assume you can solve it. eg: sympathy sex, financial woes, hook up with a friend of yours etc. Her : A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. Me : Quite true Her : Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot. Me : Really? Her : Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. Me : He must be a loser. Her : If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. Me : Another loser. Her : If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. Me : Be glad we are comfortable to feel like that in your presence even without sex. We don't usually, other than after a satisfying orgasm. Her : When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. Me : He's going crazy about his failure to bed her yet. Her : When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, 'Please come and listen to me.' Me : " please leave me alone ", we are still being polite and considerate. We absolutely need to retreat to our cave. It could escalate to " fuck off and leave me alone will you " if you continue to probe. Her : Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. Me : Guys talk about sex with girls more than girls talk about sex with guys openly. Her : A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. Me : Don't be crazy. We can never read a woman's mind. And I wouldn't want to. I will be so freaking overwhelm. And I certainly won't give up my right or left nut for that which can never be comprehend. |
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Funny. I think it might not be her views (though I suppose she might agree with some of them), but more like a copy and paste from somewhere she'd read them from perhaps?
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9/5/2009 8:37 pm |
I couldn't even finish reading this whole post. "GOOD sex are guys' weaknesses" ...I obsess about why women have changed so dramatically over the last ten years. Then I read something like this. I want to thank the younger generation of men. The children of the broken home. And the children of the hippies... ...FOR FUCKING THINGS UP FOR THE CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE SINGLE WHITE MALE!!! ;!; And if you didn't have women my age (the cougars and MILFS) to keep your dicks wet you might see the damage you have done. But as soon as your cougar turns gray I bet you will notice how many women you've lost to other women and better black men and you will sound just like me. But you won't be able to blame anyone but yourself. No connection since he "left" us... [post 2748812]  [post 2720155]  ...but feel free to "right" him in for president. 
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Does this girl know anything about men?
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9/5/2009 10:12 pm |
Dear readers and bloggers, Whether you agreed or disagreed about the pointers, those are in my thoughts and I did encountered several points from men i met here. The blog was posted according to my view & opinions only. I am not retracting my statements and I do not represent for any men and women. Xinyue76 @}~ LOVE begin with a smile, Grow with a kiss, Ends with a tear drop
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Dear readers and bloggers, Whether you agreed or disagreed about the pointers, those are in my thoughts and I did encountered several points from men i met here. The blog was posted according to my view & opinions only. I am not retracting my statements and I do not represent for any men and women. No one have the rights to change your views or need to change your views. If someone reads my post and disagree with what I say, so be it. I don't fucking need their validation. And I'm not in the least affected by what they think. I know freaking well who I am. If they find me offensive or cocky, they can take their whining to their mummy dearest and STFU. I enjoy reading your posts and I certainly hope you are entertained by mine. Be true to yourself and don't give a damn what others think. For how others judge you only reflects back on what they think of themselves. Its not about you. cheers
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9/6/2009 12:58 am |
Hey precious, let's be kool. There ain't no right or wrong views, don't you think? Its just your views and my views and then some other views. No one have the rights to change your views or need to change your views. If someone reads my post and disagree with what I say, so be it. I don't fucking need their validation. And I'm not in the least affected by what they think. I know freaking well who I am. If they find me offensive or cocky, they can take their whining to their mummy dearest and STFU. I enjoy reading your posts and I certainly hope you are entertained by mine. Be true to yourself and don't give a damn what others think. For how others judge you only reflects back on what they think of themselves. Its not about you. cheers  Agreed. FYI, i really do like your blogs. I'll be watching...... Xinyue76 @}~ LOVE begin with a smile, Grow with a kiss, Ends with a tear drop
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I couldn't even finish reading this whole post. "GOOD sex are guys' weaknesses" ...I obsess about why women have changed so dramatically over the last ten years. Then I read something like this. I want to thank the younger generation of men. The children of the broken home. And the children of the hippies... ...FOR FUCKING THINGS UP FOR THE CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE SINGLE WHITE MALE!!! ;!; And if you didn't have women my age (the cougars and MILFS) to keep your dicks wet you might see the damage you have done. But as soon as your cougar turns gray I bet you will notice how many women you've lost to other women and better black men and you will sound just like me. But you won't be able to blame anyone but yourself. I feel compelled to tell you...A male is a male. Whether you are white or black or of other origins, we bleed the same blood and ejaculate the same sperm. Women don't judge if you are a conservative christian or a hedonistic atheist. A prick is a prick. Attraction defies all rules and checklists that they may have. If they are attracted to you, they are. If they aren't, don't blame it on some nincompoop reasons. It's time you search yourself inwardly and be responsible for your own actions and debilitating thoughts, than being bitter about your graying cougar and self inflicted lack and limitations. And for the record, when I was wetting my diapers and suckling on my mother's breast, you were not even a minuscule little sperm, much less conceived in your mother's womb. So stop whining with your written diarrhoea spew all over my blog. Insinuating how old you are or when i reach your age I'll be sorry. You obviously have a mind much older than your body. Get out there and take some actions. Women are in abundance my friend.
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9/6/2009 4:40 pm |
Whores are in abundance thanks to men like you.  And Van Jones got the boot today so I'm too happy to argue. America will not bow down to the devil. 
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Whores are in abundance thanks to men like you. And Van Jones got the boot today so I'm too happy to argue. America will not bow down to the devil.  There's no lack of women, all you need is a little time If you have it, they'll wait in line Women are not whores, but god's gift to mankind If you treat them right, they'll be happy to wine and dine And thanks to men with a head like you..... the desirable ones will probably end up mine. 
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9/7/2009 11:32 am |
I like your post.. it's kind of rythme. There's no lack of women, all you need is a little time If you have it, they'll wait in line Women are not whores, but god's gift to mankind If you treat them right, they'll be happy to wine and dine And thanks to men with a head like you..... the desirable ones will probably end up mine. The days of the atheist are numbered in America and you would be surprised how many Asian girls I get letters from wishing they could be with me in America just to get away from men like you. So enjoy it while it lasts. I stopped buying Chinese products months ago. 
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oh dear... i came in because i was amazed at the no. of responses a post written by a man has garnered... I respect that old cougar's views,.. but they are so fundamentalist,.. i hope that either he meets women with extremely short-term memory, or a woman that shares his views,.. although i hope the children they raise won't become adolf hitlerisque... and i disagree with about 20% of your post, although i don't make sweeping generalisations about mankind.  Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.
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20% is not a bad start.... ( wink )
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