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I think I pushed him further away  

xdrearydancerx 35F
627 posts
10/22/2015 8:10 am
I think I pushed him further away

He told me that he wants to reschedule the date we had this Friday. I actually wasn't surprised he did this. I thought, "Gee, I wonder what's going to happen with this one. I bet he's going to cancel on me." But I have a strange feeling he won't reschedule and doesn't want to meet me. I am not just thinking this because he cancelled on me. We did have a little tension so I think he is put off by me and is having second thoughts. At the same time we had chemistry and attraction to each other.

When he texted me about this I just responded with "okay." Then later I texted him, "I probably shouldn't say this, but if you actually don't want to meet me you can tell me that." It shows that he read the text and didn't respond. I know I should not tell a guy something like that because it will annoy them even more. I'm just so fed up with guys and it has been a very bad year for me. I'm even still upset about the last guy who<b> rejected </font></b>me too.

Shyguyinaz 59M
Ask me for a photo
1624 posts
10/22/2015 8:19 am

 Hang in there hun, the guy for you will come along.


GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
10/22/2015 8:27 am

 Let the guys hang , make them text you.

Remember:

God gave men the bat and ball, but he blessed women with the playing field


hotmichellexxxx 38F
6 posts
10/22/2015 8:32 am

 hang in there babes


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
10/22/2015 9:40 am

 Dating on or from an adult site requires great fishing skills and tremendous patience.
A fisher must cast a thousand lines, to find the fish hungry enough to fill his dish in lean times. Err, her dish, lol. Looks like you have the right lures, that's for sure
Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
10/22/2015 6:02 pm

 take it one step at a time, don't rush it will happen and your time will come to be happy


WhyteGuy4DRKlips 56M
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109 posts
10/24/2015 2:48 pm

 yeah, I think you just need to relax and take a break from ANY "effort" on your part .... chill a while, find a new hobby, "work on yourself" for a bit -- whether it by mental, physical or spiritual -- just take some time off and do yourself the favor of letting go of some of this hardship ....it's definitely NOT EASY out there, and there are certainly trolls and idiots galore, a literal mine-field of wrong turns and matches....BUT, I think if you're able to settle down a bit and pull yourself back, the correct path (and person) will open up for you ....


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