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Single men in swinging, or why we don’t want your attention  

2dancenplay 72M/54F
8 posts
12/20/2014 11:18 am
Single men in swinging, or why we don’t want your attention

Single men in swinging seem to fall into a few recognizable groups.
A. Player wannabes, who hope to score an occasional lay. Usually viewed as losers…
B. Bulls, who are looking for the cuckold couples. This is a kink, and you’re welcome to it. Not our cup of tea and would not enjoy even knowing anyone who thought like this. To each his own.
C. Single men who were in a swinging couple but lost their partner, by breakup or other causes. These guys tend to understand that they are not as welcome as they once were and respect the people they know in the lifestyle enough to not crowd in on them. They are actually more likely to be welcome because of that respect. I don’t have an aversion to an extra guy at a party if he is one of these, and she would love the attention. The key is that we already knew them before.
D. The serious players, out to score at any cost. They will lie, cheat, steal, whatever it takes to get a piece. Like a travelling salesman, always looking for the lonely, or bored, or frustrated or whatever, lady to manipulate, use and then drop if it gets serious. A lady friend in every town, all thinking they just might keep him, not knowing that he is just using them. My response to this type would be to ask them if they are faster than a speeding bullet, and offer them a chance to demonstrate it. I have no use for assholes! Some bulls may fit this category as well.

I know that there are couples that like to add a man or two for their enjoyment because they like gangbangs or are Bi. That requires that they screen to keep out undesirables and guys who would chip away at their relationship. Okay for them, but we aren’t into that.
Many men in swinging love to watch their ladies in action having fun. I’m cool with that, but again discretion in choices is mandatory. That’s why most stick to couples, and then they get to have fun too.

Abelistic501 59M

1/5/2018 10:43 pm

 I fall in the C category. It really does suck enjoying the swing lifestyle and being single. lol


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