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Women have it so easy....Yeah Right !!!
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Women have it so easy....Yeah Right !!! This is an old blog worth repeating because you know, nothing ever changes... You men think women have it so easy on here. We can have the pick of the litter because of the male-to-female ratio. Let me tell you, you're probably right but after we<b> weed </font></b>out all the undesirables, there's not much left to choose from. Let me explain undesirables....at least in my book. There are the men who don't fit my age range, they live too far away, are not the race I am comfortable with, and those that I might not be comfortable with their sexual orientation. I need someone who can spell above a 5th-grade level and can have an intelligent conversation, has a sense of humor and is taller than I am, preferably much taller... and let's not forget the men who lie about their ages, appearance and marital status... I also have a need to be attracted to them...is that too much to ask? They don't have to be movie star quality and have a body of a personal trainer but let's face it, if I'm gonna let you fuck me, I want to be attracted to you, at least a little bit... I've also had to endure the men who are just as bad as the women they all complain about. The FLAKES.... They email you, they chat with you, they make you comfortable getting to know them... some will even call you or meet you for coffee but after a while of not actually getting together, or being stood up I feel like I've been led on and lied to... Then there are the men who are too pushy... A few emails and you either move to IM or start texting... Then every time you sign on, BAM !, they IM you or they text you constantly throughout the day... They become incessant and annoying... Soon I stop responding altogether because I'm just disgusted with it all... It's very frustrating... especially when you've been looking forward to it and you're sexually excited... it also pisses me off when I take the time to get "ready" to meet someone and they cancel last minute with some excuse that you would give your boss... I know other things do come up that cannot be avoided but women need time to prepare for meeting you... it's not always a quick shower and out the door... So how do I meet a decent man who isn't a flake, who isn't overbearing, who reads my profile and fits what I'm looking for? I understand why it's hard for a man to get laid on here, but it shouldn't be this hard for a woman.....should it? I am for real !!! No fake...no bot... no alternate website to chat with me...100% real.... if we like each other and have that click when we meet, I'm gonna want to fuck you... so please be a man and do the right thing... I'm just as tired of the games and the BS as you are !!!  |
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I hear you, but it's still much tougher for the men because we outnumber the women by 100 to 1. Those horrible odds are in addition to dealing with all the same issues you listed because the women here are no different than the men. So, I have no sympathy for you even though I agree with you. I'd much rather be in your position than mine.
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7/30/2017 10:58 am |
I don't fake nothing..because I hate fake People.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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I fully agree that women here have a significant amount of weeding out to do. But some guys make it easy to eliminate them, and some others deceive to get to you. Guys do some weeding too, but I suspect it isn't as intensive in part because men have less of a "risk factor" to deal with. The numbers still favor women, but are not as high as some people think. Based on the site's raw numbers it is roughly 20 to 1. Given that comparatively women can afford to be as selective as they deem right for them. Frustrating for both sexes but the site(s)have tools to deal with some of that. who reads my profile? Write the profile so that a guy has to read it all and answer a simple question within the profile. Personally, I think the "fake" profile thing is overstated. Are there "fakes" a.k.a scammers - of course, are there liars - of course. Are there as many as a number of people complain about - I don't think so. And, if a person, male or female, reads profiles, and asks the right (and unbiased) questions I would say those types can be figured out. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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So, for all the reasons you list why it is difficult to meet a man, IS said about women, and then that is even after she takes the time of day to chat with you. Oh and add one more, Pay to Play. Sometimes after all the effort you put into meeting the lady, you find out how much it will cost to meet this magical lady you have been worked up over for the past week or month. So, yes, I understand your frustration, but as a guy, I have to stick up for the guys and say that we still have it tough, even if it were 1:1 ratio.
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Unfortunately, when looking at women's profiles, I also have to filter out ... "The women who don't fit my age range, they live too far away. I need someone who can spell above a 5th-grade level and can have an intelligent conversation, has a sense of humor ... and let's not forget the women who lie about their ages, appearance, size and marital status... " And the ones who want me to fuck them in front of their boyfriends, who want ten men to fuck them in an afternoon, who will do "everything with anyone". The ones that want me to be "daddy"... and the ones that are only interested in attracting men to bolster their egos and have no intention of ever meeting.... Believe me, the women here are the full spectrum, just like the men. So the numbers still apply. And to be honest, I'm struggling to see the downside in posting a photo of my tits and then sitting back and receiving emails every day from people who want to fuck me - given that I can simply ignore those I don't fancy. If I'm not going to put any effort into finding partners then it seems churlish to complain about the people I attract...
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Men haven't always been that so it only stands to reason that they must of picked it up somewhere,by someone(s) The best I can do is thank you for at least not turning sex into an ultimatum. Yet! Using more than all the road!
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The only way women have it easy is if she will sleep with anybody who wants here. We older women are suppose to want younger men. Not me. We are suppose to want to fuck outside if the man wants to. Not me. If the man wants to meet the same day we are suppose to. In other words it is easy for us women of we have no standards. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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Do_u_wanna_kiss replies on 7/30/2017 6:12 pm: I understand that both sexes have their own things to do in weeding through the masses but the odds are high... there's no denying that but I honestly believe it's much higher than you've stated... I put a lot of time into my profile yet on any given day I'm bound to get emails from men who clearly didn't even read the first 5 words of it... they see a pic they like and the blood rushes from the brain and the thought process stops...I tend to read every profile I look at... that helps me right off the bat decide if I even want to communicate with someone...I'd like the same courtesy in return but what was I thinking? If you look under the "Search" bar one option, at the bottom is "Browse". That gives you the numbers (raw) of who is looking for whom. I have calc'd it lately but it usually comes out to 20 to 1. If you put a question or word at the end of your profile that a guy has to answer FIRST to get you to read his message, that will weed out the guys who don't read the profile. You can also set up a message on your "Auto-Reply". The site does have tools for some of the weeding. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Papis my lil paszion fruit. The site offers a lot more than the bar scene ever could but the drawback is you aren't face-to-face to get an immediate connection. I think I would probably "do better" if I were in an area where there were more people On the other hand I have spoken to a number of women, from a distance, that I probably never would have met. If I could resolve the distance thing I would probably be in sexual heaven. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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7/30/2017 10:45 pm |
Women in general will always have it easier on here. The numbers are in their favor. Yes, guys can be @$$holes. But then you get to eliminate them from your pool.
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