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ORGANISING A SEX PARTY
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ORGANISING A SEX PARTY  When I was part of a swinging couple, I used to hold many sex parties for couples. They were great fun even though they involved quite a lot of hard work, though a few couples often helped out. Over the next few weeks, I’m going to blog about these parties. This post is on organising couples to come to a sex party; there’ll be other posts on preparing a sex party, hosting a sex party, enjoying a sex party and cleaning-up after a sex party. Our parties were for about 15 couples. I kept a list of couples who were interested in coming to parties. The list contained the names of couples who mailed us to say they were interested in attending parties, who expressed on their profile that they were interested in parties and who had already attended our parties. We always aimed to get about 15 couples to attend a party. There’s a danger of parties being too small and too big. We went to some parties with very few people attending and there was little choice of people to have sex with or little atmosphere. And we went to some parties with lots of people attending and there was little chance to get to know people to have sex with or little connection to the party. To get 15 couples to actually attend a party, we had to invite about 90 couples. We’d send the party invitations about three months before the date of the party to allow people to plan their diaries and make the necessary arrangements (including telling their a lie where they were going!). Of the 90 couples, about a third would say they want to come, a third would say they can’t come and a third would not reply to the invitation. The latter wouldn’t be invited to another party. To the 30 couples who wanted to come to our party, we would send a confirmation mail giving more details about the party. And about a week before the party, we’d send a reminder mail about the party. In this period, about a third of the couples would mail to say they can no longer make the party. Probably a few couples had no intention of coming to the party but at least they told us. Some people like the idea of a sex party but, when it comes to the crunch, back out. Many people had genuine reasons (eg illness, no babysitter) why they couldn’t come to the party. We were then left with 20 couples definitely coming to the party, but there would always be about five couples who would not show up on the night. The no shows would never be invited to another party. The 90 became 15 all the time. It was a bit like airlines selling tickets on flights! I always enjoyed managing the invitations. If you were invited to a sex party, would you accept? Would you be tempted to hold a sex party? What was the party that you organised and for whom? For those who want to read more about organising a sex party, below are the template invitation, confirmation and reminder mails we sent out about the party. ---------- PARTY INVITATION We’re inviting you both to a party on Saturday evening, 2 June 2012 at our spacious city centre apartment in Nottingham. The party will start at 7.00pm and will end when the last couple leaves! Please arrive no later than 8.00pm. There will be about 15 couples attending. We will provide some food as nibbles only. There is enough room in the apartment for couples to stay overnight in relative comfort. We can also recommend nearby hotels. If you can come (and on a first come, first served basis), we will send you more details about the party (eg our address); we will accept the first 30 couples who accept our invitation. Nearer the time we will send you the names of couples attending. Finally, all offers of help (especially on the Saturday morning) in setting and clearing up the house for the party will be gratefully received. We hope you can come to our party. Please let us know by Saturday, 28 April whether you can or cannot come to the party. If you want to come, please let us know whether you want to stay overnight and also please provide us with your mobile phone number just in case. Thanks. We look forward to hearing from you whether you can and would like to come or not. ---------- PARTY CONFIRMATION We’re pleased that you can both come to our party on Saturday evening, 2 June 2012 (7.00pm to late; please arrive no later than 8.00pm). The party will be held at our city centre apartment at the following address: There are many hotels, most within easy walking distance to our apartment, including the following hotels: We will provide some food (nibbles only) and some drink. Please do not take any pictures etc at the party. Smoking is allowed at the party (lounge and roof terrace only). Please bring along drinks, bedding (if staying overnight), and sexy clothes (if desired). There will be about 15 couples attending. We will mail again nearer the time with a final list of couples coming to the party. So far, the following couples are planning to come to our party: We are keen that everyone feels relaxed and does not feel pressured. We are naturally assuming that mutual respect and good manners prevail. We are not planning for a free-for-all, unless everyone wants that! We will set up the apartment so there are areas to drink, eat and chat and areas to play. If, for whatever reason, you are unable to make the party, please can you let us know as soon as possible? Thanks. Please get in touch with us if you have any queries etc about the party. Our mobile phone number is …. We’re very much looking forward to seeing you both at the party, and we’ll be in touch about the party nearer the time. ---------- PARTY REMINDER We’re sending a quick mail to remind you both of our party on Saturday evening, 2 June. The party will start at 7.00pm; please arrive no later than 8.00pm. The party will be held at our apartment at the following address: There are two 24-hour car parks that are only a few minutes walk away from our apartment. We will provide some food (nibbles not a meal) and some drink. Please do not take any pictures etc at the party. Smoking is allowed at the party (lounge and roof terrace only). There is no dress code for the party, though at previous parties women often (and sometimes a few men) change into sexy clothes soon after arrival. Please bring along drinks, bedding (if staying overnight) and sexy clothes (if desired). The following couples are attending the party: A few couples are likely to withdraw for a variety of reasons between now and the date of the party. If, for whatever reason, you are unable to make the party, please can you let us know as soon as possible? Thanks. We can then ask another couple if you cannot make the party. Also, we cannot relax until the last couple arrive, so we always like to know who is coming. We will set up the apartment so there are areas to drink, eat and chat (eg hall, kitchen, lounge, roof terrace) and areas to play (eg one bedroom downstairs, one bedroom upstairs). Downstairs, drinks and food will be served in the kitchen. Through the downstairs bedroom and up the stairs, there is a roof terrace - please wear clothes and keep the conversation clean as the roof terrace is overlooked by other apartments. The upstairs study overlooking the lounge can also be used for people to dress/undress and to store their clothes, bags, bedding etc; in the study, there is a clothes rail to hang coats etc. There are toilets and showers upstairs and downstairs. All doors should be left open (except outside doors and toilet doors!). For those people who are staying overnight, please feel free to sleep in the two bedrooms or the lounge. Also please feel free to help yourselves to coffee, tea, toast etc in the morning in the kitchen. Please get in touch with us if you have any queries etc about the party. Our mobile phone number is …. We are getting very excited about the party!  |
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Firstly, I want to say this is a wonderful idea, and Thank you. I am interested but my partner has yet to decide to join in... I am working on her and will keep you posted. Thank you. Kind regards Max
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I would have gone if I had been invited when I was younger....not now. I don't think I would be tempted to organise one now. The last party I organised was my late husband's 50th Birthday party....unfortunately the birthday boy was unable to attend....he died 3 months before....but we went ahead and had it anyway....as a celebration of his life.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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If you were invited to a sex party, would you accept? If you were accompany me I might accept Would you be tempted to hold a sex party? If I was into this life style might just do it! What was the party that you organised and for whom? never have.. hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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If you were invited to a sex party, would you accept? Probably..but my wife might veto the legislation. Would you be tempted to hold a sex party? No chance in hell. What was the party that you organised and for whom? N/A Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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We went to that particular party ( traveling over 300 miles to get there) which was very well organised and a lot of great fun. xxx
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Firstly, I want to say this is a wonderful idea, and Thank you. I am interested but my partner has yet to decide to join in... I am working on her and will keep you posted. Thank you. Kind regards Max Thanks for stopping by.
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I would have gone if I had been invited when I was younger....not now. I don't think I would be tempted to organise one now. The last party I organised was my late husband's 50th Birthday party....unfortunately the birthday boy was unable to attend....he died 3 months before....but we went ahead and had it anyway....as a celebration of his life. 
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If my body was surgically rehabilitated, I would definitely accept an invite and I have the guts to attend on the night. My response to your second question is essentially the same as my first... Contingent upon surgery. I could not attend a party as a half and half curiosity, nothing would turn my tummy quicker. I think the invitation, confirmation and reminder examples you have displayed above are excellent.
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If you were invited to a sex party, would you accept? If you were accompany me I might accept Would you be tempted to hold a sex party? If I was into this life style might just do it! What was the party that you organised and for whom? never have.. hugssssssssss V
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Je suis venu . Je ai vu. Je dis, vive la différence!
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If you were invited to a sex party, would you accept? Probably..but my wife might veto the legislation. Would you be tempted to hold a sex party? No chance in hell. What was the party that you organised and for whom? N/A
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We went to that particular party ( traveling over 300 miles to get there) which was very well organised and a lot of great fun. xxx I'd love to hold another party; I think my girlfriend is receptive to the idea as she keeps asking me questions about the parties!
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I think a Swedish sex party would be a big draw, particularly if you said Abba would be there! I could only ever promise Paper Lace at my parties! You also have a sauna to get things going.
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I've found that shy people often have the most fun at parties!
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You'd be very welcome to come to my party; there's always enough room for a gang bang room!
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It's great you have questions. Most couples who came to a parties were couple who we'd met before. Other couples invited were on recommendations of couples we knew. And a few couples were invited after a few mails exchanged. We'd expect names, face pictures and mobile phone numbers before couples came to the party. Our only screening was that they were a genuine couple who wanted to attend a sex party. There were a few couples who we didn't want to invite because of personality differences, but we did no screening about looks. I'm no fascist! No one stole anything from us. People brought condoms to parties, but we also provided them. The parties were great - just like a normal party but with the option of sex, but some didn't have sex at a party, which was fine! I often had no sex at parties; it was great to have an uninhibited party where sex may happen!
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I assure you holding sex parties was not altruistic!
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