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Miss me?  

angelelf 44M/41F
884 posts
6/19/2009 4:43 am
Miss me?

Sorry for not posting sooner. Couldn't think of any topics to write about. And sorry again to all guys here. I don't meet up with guys anymore or at least not at the moment. So don't ask me when I be back SG as my time in SG is very precious since I only back for 3-4 days each time.

Yea, you read it right. I did meet up with a few guys from here despite saying that I do not do meet up. I did it because they managed to interest me that much to want me to meet them. Not that I meet a lot of guys here. I only met up with 3 guys.

The first guy was single and looking for a girlfriend/companion but I didn't want to. Plus the fact that he is 15 years older than me. We don't talk that much now as he is more into looking for a special companion to spend time with.

The second guy was not interesting as he only wishes to bed me. He had not interest to talk and get to know each other. No, we didn't have any bedroom action. I wasn't interested at all.

The third guy. We met up due to my ex had to go for his reservist training and I was insisting on wanting to go ECP to blade. So I messaged him if he wished to join me for blading and he agreed. He was quite good at blading and gave me some pointers.

From then on, we met up regularly as friends behind my ex back. Then slowly I started going over to his place to stay over, in a way to be there for him as he broke up with his ex. And for me to escape from my ex because my own relationship were on the rocks as well.

When my relationship finally fell apart months later, he was there to comfort and support me. He helped me alot as I was out of job for a long time until this recent job. I was always staying over at his place but we don't see each other as boyfriend and girlfriend but as companion. We enjoyed each other company, his friends, colleagues and family know me, did things together, chat about anything under the sun. I have access to his place from his parents to stay over if I want to when I back and if he wasn't in.

He can cook as well. Even a simple soba or spaghetti taste great eating with him. I couldn't cook at all so when I got hungry at night, I just had to show him my puppy eyes and he would go and find or whip up something for me.

He came over to surprise me last month and stayed with me for 2 nights before going back. This month, he is coming over to spend his birthday with me. I am so looking forward to seeing him again.

There is fourth guy that I considering if I should meet up with him when I back. He seem interesting and able to hold a conversation with me. Something that I look at, even though I am very quiet person to begin with.

Nevertheless I am glad to know and be with him. Thus I am not looking for anything more at the moment. Though I don't mind having more virtual friends.

I shall end this post by giving you guys a picture, the view from my room. It was a great day with an amazing calm sea. Everything was perfect that afternoon. Guess where I am staying.



rm_mailpanda 64M

6/19/2009 5:12 pm



Makes one happy.........


NthDimensions 56M
177 posts
2/26/2010 12:38 pm

3rd guy is not your bf now? situations etc seems like bf.gf relationship. if its open relationship, n u have not had sex, does seem v unusual...


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