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Is this true?????  

34rfun 65M/62F
33 posts
1/14/2016 1:31 pm
Is this true?????

First, let me state, in no way, shape, or form, do I have anything against bisexuals, men or women. This blog is about seeing if a trend is forming toward that.
Ok, in the course of being a swinger for several years, we've had the opportunity to talk to so many more people than we ever would have met in vanilla life. Most aren't different than your neighbors or mine, except we all like to fuck as much as possible, with willing, consenting adult partners. Moving on. There are classifications most ask for, as in sexual preference. The majority of women are bi or bi curious, the majority of men are straight. That is from looking at profiles. What has blown my mind, is how many women, even straight women, LOVE seeing two men sucking each other's cock, or fucking a guy up the ass. I know, we guys love seeing two gorgeous women going at it, but I honestly did not think it went the other way. So I started asking people I knew a little better than others. I would ask the wives, do you enjoy seeing bisexual male activity? THE ANSWER- An overwhelming HELL YEAH! I was amazed. I asked if it turned them on. Most said it made them wet immediately. Well. Go figure that one. About half like it better than seeing straight sex. I had to ask the next question, but was a little nervous for all my straight male friends. In the interest of fairness, it had to be asked, "Ladies, if given the opportunity and knowing your man is straight, would it turn you on to see him suck a cock, or have his sucked, or give or receive anal with a male?" I flinched my eyes when I asked, and there was little hesitation before hearing, "OH, I wish he would. God that would be so hot, and we could include bi guys then." I asked if they ever talked about this with their men. NO, they said, they couldn't. I told them, they all have strong relationships. If my wife wanted something of me, I would want to know about it. I encouraged them to "fess up" their inner thoughts. You never know. I NEVER thought my wife would want to try girls, until that day when she put a smile on my face and a tent in my pants by telling me she was curious and wanted to try. So how about it, girls? Tell me by your reply if this is a turn on for you. Of, like some, the idea is not at all appealing. We are curious, at least to know what you think.

Jenna_Cide 50F  
55 posts
1/14/2016 1:46 pm

 Mainstream Mass Media has crammed it down the throats of women everywhere they need to be bisexual to " be part of the IN crowd". I have been out since high school, way before it was " cool" to be bisexual and I can assure you, 97 % of the women on this site who claim to be into girls are doing it to put on a show for one man or another. Biggest red flag?....."she cant EVER play alone".A.K.A...." it's not really for her, it's for him"...In the reverse, Media has made it less " cool" to be a bisexual male, they are viewed as sissy's,not masculine,and meeting in dark places. Throughout history we, as humans haven't changed much in our sexuality, our wants and desires, it has only been in the last 20 years or so that society has let up on the pressure. Look back on cutting edge shows, such as " Will and Grace" back then it was borderline blasphemy, now, it's almost boring. In the end, what I am trying to say is.....what we want and desire versus what we do is VERY controlled by what media portrays as " correct behavior"


34rfun replies on 1/15/2016 5:40 am:
Thank you for your in depth comments. I agree somewhat that women are nearly expected to be bisexual. As a male, I can only state, in my own marriage and rules, I have NEVER asked my wife to consider women. She actually surprised me with it one day. Just as when we started swinging, I told her I did NOT want her to go along to appease me. I knew, someday, she would come to resent me, if she did. I said we ONLY move forward if you want to do this for you, for your own experience. But, we've been married 36 years and have always had communication, so it's not a problem for us. I have no prejudice, as I stated at the beginning of the blog. To each their own, and if it feels good, do it. You are a very intelligent woman and well spoken, and I thank you for your valued opinion. However, the only thing missing is this: Does seeing two men sucking each other off, or butt fucking, turn YOU on? That was kind of the essence of the blog, but I appreciate your take.

Ixxolar 72M/57F

1/16/2016 2:56 pm

 Why in the world would I wan't to see two men do it? When they both
could be doing me


34rfun replies on 1/25/2016 4:46 am:
You make a good point, and my own proclivity is toward double stuffing a beautiful woman such as yourself. As I said, some women say they like seeing it as much as guys like seeing two women together. Like you, I'd rather have both women on me, but if they wanted to enjoy each other, it would be a turn on to see it. Thanks for your input!

kellylizjones 66M/64F  
46 posts
2/29/2016 4:45 am

 I have only seen guy on guy, pics and videos on here, they do NOT turn me on,
I do enjoy watching two women kiss and playing!
It is all a personal preference! We have MET CD's and Tv's , and men who are BI, and they do NOT offend me! I'm just being honest, I have not watched "live action", but pics and videos of guy on guy do not turn me on,,,,

Kelly


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
9/28/2016 8:18 am

 Turn on --- yes! It to me is the ultimate tease and --- I guess a way of saying we are equals? They'll do what they wish me to, thing.

It would turn me on to see a man suck him off -- but what's weird is I have ZERO interest in seeing him suck cock. ( Probably because I know it's a hard, HELL NO!! to both. ) Yet that's why I have fun friends. Smiles.


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