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A kiss is just a kiss? Sure  

skinsosoft1960 64F
28 posts
6/10/2009 5:07 pm
A kiss is just a kiss? Sure


When I was a , everyone said that kissing just comes naturally, yes it does, you pucker up and away you go. Personally, I’m not sure how exciting that is, though I’m sure for some people, it is a dream come true.

There are so many types of kisses and so much that makes them memorable or not!

The chaste kiss ‒ lip to lip, eyes open, lips closed.

The vacuum cleaner job ‒ c’mon, surely I don’t really need to describe that delight do I??

The sexy gentle kiss, starts slow, gentle, involves a hand in the hair, or a light finger down the neck, mmm makes me shiver to think of it.

Of course lots of other things go into making a kiss a worthwhile kiss. It seems that someone sticking their tongue down your throat is somehow appealing, but surely that should come when you have already totally explored the face and the lips beneath yours, got the heads at the right angle and worked out where all those arms go, lol.

Garlic breath is fine if you have both eaten the same type of food, but otherwise, not too pleasant. Smelly breath has to be a turnoff, and how do you not know if your breath stinks?

So help me out here, is it better to kiss with eyes open or eyes closed. I find it non passionate to kiss with eyes open, wonder what it is you are watching for? The visual has to detract from the sensory ‒ doesn’t it?

sum1spcl4u2night 61M

6/10/2009 7:43 pm

Eyes closed allows other four sense to enhance themselves to compensate for the distraction of looking around, unless of course it is open eyes for both gazing deeply into each other's soul. I like em closed more than open.


horny196364 60M

6/11/2009 5:46 am

love to chat with you sometime


beach5269 68M

12/20/2009 12:06 am

I think you need to kiss me.


jaxharddriver55 69M
80 posts
3/14/2010 4:22 am

Even though the eyes are the windows to the soul, they are also the cameras to the brain. I believe that with the eyes open, your brain is not concentrating on the moment and the physical, as well as the emotional, feelings that are going on. As sum1spcl says, with your eyes closed, your other senses will compensate and your feelings, especially touch and taste, will become more sensitive. Those are my feelings about this situation anyway. LOL.


car1035 71M
7 posts
3/29/2010 4:50 pm

well, it seems you've had enough men commenting on your kisses. but when the kiss is great enough to ignite the passion within us both, then our eyes will do as our bodies will let us. kisses to you my sensual lady.


7countryman7 71M
72 posts
7/24/2010 5:58 am

Mmmmmmmmm Skin So Soft;
The perfect kiss can be compared to all the perfect grains of sand that make our perfect beaches (before BP), or the perfect trees that make the perfect forests.
I could explain what the greatest kiss was for me but I'm sure other readers would disagree and say theirs is far greater then mine. But, just to wet your appetite mine began only after more then 30 seconds of looking into my former lovers eyes and seeing that she was as hesitant as I and when we both mutually chanced it, WOW


7countryman7 71M
72 posts
7/24/2010 7:27 pm

I have read the responses from your topic and am now wondering what was it that inspired you to seek others answers to a perfect kiss. Every kiss that comes not preplanned should be added to the list of perfect kisses. if the kiss is spontaneous, what is the importance as to whether it shoots off fireworks, or makes you dizzy,if it is a kiss from the heart and not from the mind, then what could be more perfect then that.
I would like to discuss this topic with you in person over a coffee and who knows, if we put our heads together, we may come up with a far clearer idea of what one is. 7countryman7


7countryman7 71M
72 posts
6/12/2011 6:15 pm

Hi again sweetie; I commented last summer on your blog, the perfect kiss. And here it is eleven months laterand there you are a checking out my profile. My offer still stands for a meet over coffee or lunch. I still remember that special perfect kiss of mine aand we could meet and discuss it, and yours, and maybe we may want to meet again. 7countryman7


Saggitus1953 70M  
2 posts
8/18/2011 4:07 pm

Avec les yeux fermés, cherie. That's my vote. Eyes open maybe for a quick glance. One's too close anyway, makes you go x-eyed. Better to close the eyes, a kiss is a sensation to be felt, not seen.


skinsosoft1960 replies on 12/1/2012 3:30 pm:
Absolument!! Merci.

IAGuy47 68M
273 posts
12/12/2012 8:17 pm

I naturally kiss with my eyes closed - I think it allows me to concentrate more on the emotion and the sensations coming through my lips and tongue. I am very oral, and kissing is one of the most intimate things we do.


Ladys1stAlways3 67M

7/1/2013 4:49 pm

A kiss is just a kiss if there is no electricity that sparks both kissers. Like kissing your child or mother!

Open eyes could never create any passion in a kiss when you are experiencing the Kiss with a partner you are attracted to. You get a deeper inner connection with your eyes closed because you are not allowing your visual senses to distract you.


urluvseeker 62M
12 posts
10/27/2013 10:29 am

Hi, I like your thoughts, you should expand upon them, I wrote a snippet awhile back about kissing. Personally I think it is one of the best activities ever invented. Check out my blog urluvseeker. I know my handle is lame, but I kept coming up with ones already in use, this worked and I went with it. The best kisses are morning kisses me thinks!
Have a great day and do keep writing. You express yourself well....


MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
9/1/2014 9:05 am

I was 15, she was 17.

We had been going together for a few months but all of a sudden she said that she wasn't happy with how things were going and was thinking of breaking up.

Why? Because I had never learned how to "French kiss".

It is said that ignorance can be cured by education and/or experience but stupid is forever.{br]
Stupid I am NOT!

We got busy with her teaching and our practicing.

I'm a bit more experienced now.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/26/2014 6:07 pm

You might be right, but I love to look. I think she's beautiful and I want to see her.

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Tangle696 66M
1 post
10/31/2015 8:02 pm

The lips seem to turn on all my organist zones. I could do it for hours and have many times.


hungsailorman69 85M
67 posts
7/7/2020 3:19 pm

a soft, tender, kiss, hand cupping your chin, eyes closed to appreciate the feeling


SlutAlicexxx 64T
2 posts
1/2/2021 11:48 am

Interesting analysis of the kiss. I find the kiss the most erotic gateway to sexual seduction and the anticipation of the kiss is such a delight. You see in movies where there is about to be a kiss and something disturbs that moment but the nearness of the lips, the eyes slightly closed, that is the moment. Then there is the first touch of the lips when they connect. That is the best moment and I wish it could be savoured, but alas the lips have touched like an electrical charge. The thing to do I feel, is retract the lips for a moment and reconnect with the same delicate touch.
saying all that and have kissed many times I find the eyes closed works the best as you are focused and not distracted, also your sense of touch is somewhat highlighted with your eyes closed.


59Consul 59M

8/18/2021 11:00 pm

I would say it is in the mind.

Kiss with eyes closed is a passion or a thought that is personal and can be shared. Kissing with eyes open is passion directly shared with the person you are kissing.

Emotion and pleasure is the journey and it is different for everybody.


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