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Okukyalira Ensiko, the Buganda art of enhancing sexual pleasure
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Okukyalira Ensiko, the Buganda art of enhancing sexual pleasure  Humanity’s pursuit for merit is not restricted to the open. Even in utmost privacy, when the matter at hand is entirely the business of a secretive twosome, mankind has always sought to excel and impress. To many men, performance must impress even if it means applying drugs as dangerous as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. Many others have tried hazardous penis enlargement products. It is women, however, that have come up with the most creative and most awesome ways of enhancing their sexual performance. n some cultures, glitters and jewels are applied down there to boost the area’s attractiveness. In parts of East and Central Africa women invented a sexual stimulus method that the people of Buganda came to know as Okukyalira ensiko. This tradition of pulling and elongating the parts of the vagina variously known as labia minora, inner labia or inner lips enjoys pervasive reverence in central Uganda. In western Uganda, women of the Bahima clan used to make their<b> labia minora </font></b>long enough to cover the vaginal opening, raising barricades in the path of . As members of the clan moved to towns and increasingly started wearing clothes following the 1986 change of government, this fear went away with the modification of the vagina. In societies where its prime purpose was to increase happiness, the practice, on top of remaining intact, has greatly been fortified. Though widely practiced by many other tribes in countries like Rwanda and Malawi, it is in Buganda that the elongation of inner lips has become a salient feature with which women distinguish themselves from women of other tribes. Experts locally known as Ssenga, a title meaning paternal aunt and broadly used to refer to women specializing in sex education, say that three fingers are used to pull each of the lips downwards for several weeks. Older women, especially those past their teenage years, may have to do it for up to a month. Traditional herbs serve as catalysts. During intercourse, these elongated lips tickle the penis as it gets in and gently squeezes it as it pulls out. To men, this is a blissful spice up. To women, it evokes heavenly feelings as the penis titillates the sensitive lips during inward and outward movements. This titillation stimulates the woman to reach orgasm or even multiple orgasms faster, a level of excitement that some women hardly experience because of the inexperience of their spouses. Teased with a gentle touch during foreplay, longer lips, compared to shorter lips, easily get wet and rapidly pass on lubricants to the vaginal opening to facilitate penetration. Vaginas with long<b> labia minora </font></b>are more likely to be moist than those with short ones.  The Ssenga also state that longer lips are good for oral sex – for licking and fingering. They are so good for kachabali, a practice in western Uganda that involves using an erect penis to strike the surface of the vagina repetitively and rapidly during foreplay. Those who practice this kind of stroke, which targets the clitoris as well as the labia minora, say it’s without equal in turning on women and in driving them to orgasm. The most often stated benefit for Okukyalira ensiko is to keep the vagina warm. Long inner lips stretching to the opening of the vagina, experts say, serve as a blanket that that keeps the warmth of the sexual organ intact. One Ssenga described these lips as “doors that close” the vagina and keep its temperature at enjoyable levels. Psychological benefits have also sustained the practice. To some men, a vagina endowed with hanging lips is an incredibly sexy scene. It’s a perfect turn-on. To women, it builds confidence and self-esteem to look like other women in Buganda. These and many other benefits have made Okukyalira ensiko, which literally means visiting the bush, an integral part of sex baptism among Uganda’s largest ethnic group. Far from promoting promiscuity as one ignorant European writer claims, the tradition prepares girls for what society considers the most enjoyable and most pleasurable form of lovemaking. By no means does it transmit HIV if precautions are taken, as it is normally the case, or if a woman does it herself – without involving third parties. In most cases, however, third parties are involved, especially when the paternal aunt is required to do it on her sister’s , as tradition dictates. In this case, experts recommend gloves. Experts also advise that girls should ‘visit the bush’ before they reach puberty – before they start considering having sex. Rarely are the girls told the sexual significance of pulling their<b> labia minora </font></b>since Buganda culture considers sex discussion unsuitable for minors. Instead, they are told that the modification is a form of adornment that makes them look nice. In this information age, nevertheless, this kind of concealment doesn’t conceal much. Many of these little girls seem to know the real essence of Okukyalira ensiko. Once the<b> labia minora </font></b>have attained their required vertical length, which in Buganda is supposed to be not so long and not so short, women are advised to regularly revisit them to maintain their shape, warmth and fascination. Cleaning them regularly is equally mandatory. For starters, pulling the lips can be a bit painful. But by no means does this constitute torture, as some foreign bigots would want us to believe. Some cultural chauvinists in the West have gone as far as categorizing Okukyalira ensiko under female genital mutilation at the World Health Organisation, or WHO. They don’t realize that elongating the<b> labia minora </font></b>is actually the opposite of female genital mutilation (FGM). This is the case in the sense that FGM seeks to kill sexual feelings while Okukyalira ensiko is intended to enhance such feelings. No sane mind can put these two conflicting extremes in the same category. This is the kind of ignorance that Europeans and Americans display whenever they talk about Africa. Who in Africa did the WHO consult to equate Okukyalira ensiko to FGM? Does that organization represent the interests of the people of the world or does it serve the interests of western bigots? |
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