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How would you answer.... Ok, so the "rebounder" and I have been seeing each other AGAIN. Hanging out...trying to decide if it is something to pursue or not. I told him upfront I will not give him any more chances...tired of the b.s. So he is always griping that I never just message him. So I did last night. And an hour later he messaged me back...ok. So I sent him an email this morning...and in return he sent me a message back. Here is the conversation: ME: You baffle me! You say you want to see where things go....wanna talk....that I never text/make an effort to talk to you, but when I do you seem to be annoyed or busy. Lol.. So, you tell me.....What am I doing wrong? Not to be mean, but I am not putting myself out there again....to be dropped like a stone. Been there done that...hurts too much. I do know that I care about you. So, let me know when you want to talk. Because all I can do is wait.... HIM: Ok, Let’s get to it I am a fairly busy/active person, this summer has been so hot that it has not allowed me to do a lot of stuff that I would have normally done. And yes I have been meeting a few other women, which is very time consuming within itself!! Now that it is cooler I am busy with catching up on things at the house. I am not annoyed with you but have some things that I am not clear about & I also have a few reservations about a few things. I will list in a bulletin format below & we can discuss them in person as soon as you can, maybe tomorrow, since I have the tonight. We can both acknowledge that we “really like” one another, & that we obviously care a great deal about one another, we like one another’s , & we have AMAZING SEX!!!! Issues-concerns, not just you but both of us Health/weight, I am 47 & want to be healthy & in shape as much as humanly possible & want my partner to be at least as healthy & fit as I am. With that being said, the partner has want & desire to do it for their self & not because that’s what I want!!! Senior Sizzle, it that really something conducive to an everlasting healthy & loving relationship? I have known you for at least 3-years & have never once been inside your place. There is a stalker dude that has but not me, that does not seem right to me & makes me wonder why? There seems to be a huge trust issue with us, as far as confiding or divulging what I consider to be non-threatening information, for example not telling or being afraid of telling what kind of porn you are interested in. My question is again is why? What have I done or you think I would do? It to me does not matter to me, but the fact that you are not comfortable enough with me to discuss something so trivial makes me wonder, why!! These are a few of my “key” concerns.......................... Hope not to offend, but just throwing it out there, hope your day is going good!!! SOOOOOO.....tell me how you would respond? 1.health/weight...I am a plus size girl, I admit it. I do alot of walking, lifting, etc. I eat small meals...and I have no major health issues. 2.Senior Sizzle-he is not on Senior Sizzle...I don't "hook up" with anyone!!!! 3.My apt...He is a anal ocd (my observation) who is a MAJOR clean freak...I have an apt where my laundry doesn't always get put away. I kick off my shoes...I strip...I don't always empty the dishwasher as soon as it's done! 4.Porn-well....I just get curious. And sometimes I am NOT comfortable telling someone what I watched last! I am sorry that is my business!   |
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9/21/2011 5:26 pm |
My friend you have a strong heart and if this person truly wants to be with you he would not be playing 20 questions to this degree with you and furthermore I feel like he wants to find major reasons not to see and be with you because of all the other stuff he has listed in responding to you? [post 977684] [post 1673788] [post 1567265] [post 2508587] [post 2511504] [post 2589132] Are You Ready For........[post 2587359] Check it out & particpate!! The BHL Blog Interviews...[post 2597695] The BHL Blog Index.......[post 2594103]     
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So many issueS with so little time. What happen to love and fun. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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My friend you have a strong heart and if this person truly wants to be with you he would not be playing 20 questions to this degree with you and furthermore I feel like he wants to find major reasons not to see and be with you because of all the other stuff he has listed in responding to you?
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So many issueS with so little time. What happen to love and fun. If he doesn't want anything but a FWB then just say so....lol
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9/21/2011 7:18 pm |
Honestly, from what I can see in his nice long paragraph, by saying he want's to put it in a 'bullet format' he has a pretty good list. Sounds like he isn't happy with who you are, but wants to change, or mold you into what he desires. He should know quite a few of those answers himself by now and if he doesn't its a huge red flag there. Just my 2 cents though.
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I agree with Scooby...
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Seriously? Again? He never accepts no does he? Let's be really basic and brutal. He has AMAZING SEX with you. You have NEVER said that sex with him is good, great or anything in that category. The two of you are so wrong. Want the bullet list? He is anally clean. You are comfy casual. He is anally thin and wimpy. You are lusciously curvy and strong. He is anally controlling. You are accepting. He is anally interviewing women to own and control. You are hoping he will become human and love you for who you are instead of just being awed by your amazing sexual abilities. He is an uptight ass. You are a warm loving woman. Use him if you want but please do not get serious with him or I will be forced to .... eliminate .... him from Planet Earth and the ground is too hard to be digging his grave. I would not be surprised if he IS on here spying on YOU! Just my opinion. I'm sorry. I love you!
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Honestly, from what I can see in his nice long paragraph, by saying he want's to put it in a 'bullet format' he has a pretty good list. Sounds like he isn't happy with who you are, but wants to change, or mold you into what he desires. He should know quite a few of those answers himself by now and if he doesn't its a huge red flag there. Just my 2 cents though.
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I agree with Scooby... 
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Seriously? Again? He never accepts no does he? Let's be really basic and brutal. He has AMAZING SEX with you. You have NEVER said that sex with him is good, great or anything in that category. The two of you are so wrong. Want the bullet list? He is anally clean. You are comfy casual. He is anally thin and wimpy. You are lusciously curvy and strong. He is anally controlling. You are accepting. He is anally interviewing women to own and control. You are hoping he will become human and love you for who you are instead of just being awed by your amazing sexual abilities. He is an uptight ass. You are a warm loving woman. Use him if you want but please do not get serious with him or I will be forced to .... eliminate .... him from Planet Earth and the ground is too hard to be digging his grave. I would not be surprised if he IS on here spying on YOU! Just my opinion. I'm sorry. I love you!  That is what I was waiting to hear....the voice of reason!!!!If I "use" him...it will be a FWB in desperate times...and I keep my protection with me at all times in my overnight bag!!!! 
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9/22/2011 11:12 am |
being baffling is part of our charm !! regards
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At this very moment I am listening to him tell me how fat I am!
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being baffling is part of our charm !! regards
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No he is a JACKASS!
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