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Can't we all be friends?  

80sbaby71 52F
7340 posts
5/31/2011 7:42 am
Can't we all be friends?




What is the deal nowadays? I mean must we be petty? Childish? Wow... I thought the drama would be over once I got out of high school!

It seems that drama follows you everywhere in life. School, work, in your social life. Why is that? I mean I know there are those people that "live" for the drama. But....man it gets old after awhile.

Like now for instance. I am in a happy relationship with curlyourtoes69. Ever since I "announced" this to my "friends"...wow! It all went to hell in a handbasket. Some of my "friends" completely dropped me. People that I used to talk to on a daily basis even.

I know we all have busy lives. ..work...our own social life. But to just drop someone suddenly....that seems a little odd. I mean one day we are sharing laughs on the bookface, the next I realize I am no longer your friend. We share a dirty text, the next not a peep.

So tell me....is this something that you yourself have done to a "friend"? If so why? Or have you had this done to you? How did you feel?

The way I look at it is this.....if you are my friend...you will be there for me. You will be happy for me. You will want to see me happy. I know for a fact that my guy has female friends. Ok, so what. They text, they talk, they laugh back and forth on bookface. I have no problem, it is called trust. That is what it is all about. Yet....this kind of drama goes on. Is it just a woman thing? Or does it happen to guys as well?

Don't know....just curiosity. These are the things that come into my mind. That and sex. And boobs. And snuggling. And porn. And now McDonalds....thanks to some chickie and her blogs!

Oh...did I mention that the friends that dropped me were all guys? Does that make a difference?





80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/31/2011 11:28 am

    Quoting  :

Funny thing is....we had never done anything sexual. I mean other than hang out, be "the date" at the last minute for each other. We were just friends..... I miss my friends. Cuz sometimes we need someone to talk to.


rm_Squidley1958 65M
326 posts
5/31/2011 6:27 pm

I'm still your friend...


extramarital4fun 61M
628 posts
5/31/2011 6:37 pm

I was gone for a bit! You know I'm you're friend!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/31/2011 6:56 pm

    Quoting  :

Lol!!!!! I wuv you too!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/31/2011 6:56 pm

I'm glad!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/31/2011 6:57 pm

Like I would worry about you.....You just like me for my body


Bogie106 75M
15322 posts
5/31/2011 7:41 pm

I guess these friends, were not friends after all...so glad you 2 are hitting it off so well...love it...enjoy


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/31/2011 10:39 pm

Your true friends are still here being happy for you


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/1/2011 6:54 am

    Quoting Bogie106:
    I guess these friends, were not friends after all...so glad you 2 are hitting it off so well...love it...enjoy
I guess not. Which kinda sucks. I'm glad as well that I do have true friends still out there! Yes we are hitting it off very well, thank you!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/1/2011 6:55 am

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Not worried about you Norrin. I know you are a good friend. Wait...did you drop me!?!?!?


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/1/2011 6:55 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Your true friends are still here being happy for you
And I am grateful for YOU!!!!


BlackHeatLust 54M

6/1/2011 10:43 pm

Baby I have not dropped you on bookface or here and have been with ya since we first started blogging together and you have been there for me as well! I am happy for you and I would hope the same in return and I have also noticed a change in how people have reacted towards me since I've been in my current relationship too!!


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80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/1/2011 11:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Hun! I know...you are my buddy. I'm just being a pest......you know ya love me!~


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/1/2011 11:22 pm

    Quoting BlackHeatLust:
    Baby I have not dropped you on bookface or here and have been with ya since we first started blogging together and you have been there for me as well! I am happy for you and I would hope the same in return and I have also noticed a change in how people have reacted towards me since I've been in my current relationship too!!
Well I am glad we are still friends. Friends are always welcome in this world. And see i'm not the only one noticing the difference in the way peeps treat us!


Mygentlecaress 50M
13880 posts
6/2/2011 9:49 am

*Waves* I'm still here and am so happy to hear that you have found happiness; I always say grab it with both hands (um...that was the happiness I meant...)

Hey, come and view my blog: mygentlecaress It's complete crap but come on over anyway


BlackHeatLust 54M

6/2/2011 10:33 am

    Quoting 80sbaby71:
    Well I am glad we are still friends. Friends are always welcome in this world. And see i'm not the only one noticing the difference in the way peeps treat us!
Yes this is is so true!!


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80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/2/2011 11:57 am

    Quoting Mygentlecaress:
    *Waves* I'm still here and am so happy to hear that you have found happiness; I always say grab it with both hands (um...that was the happiness I meant...)
Good to hear! As for grabbing with two hands....sometimes "happiness" is more than a handful!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/2/2011 11:58 am




oScoobyDoo1970o 53M

6/2/2011 9:30 pm

I can see Norrin's point of view on wanting to give you some space there so the relationship can develop without any unwanted distractions.

I'm really happy that it is going great for you there Baby, you more than deserve it.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/3/2011 5:42 am

    Quoting oScoobyDoo1970o:
    I can see Norrin's point of view on wanting to give you some space there so the relationship can develop without any unwanted distractions.

    I'm really happy that it is going great for you there Baby, you more than deserve it.
Oh I totally understand that point of view. I have done the same thing when friends get into a relationship. But....I have never "dropped" a friend. I give them space, but still there for them. These guys completely dropped me....


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