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Think again
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Think again Do you ever regret the things you do? Being too good of a friend? Too trusting of others? Yeah well that seems to be my touble lately. I have a friend who is in the reserves. When he happens to be in the city for training we will try to get together for dinner to catch up. No big deal. Wednesday of this week, after a long night, and several days, I had just crawled back into my comfy bed to snooze a little. Seemed like I had just closed my eyes when my wakes me to tell me there is a man at the door. Well that means I have to get up to go check it out. Well it happens to be my friend, who came to town early to take care of business. He offered to take my and I out for lunch so we could catch up. So we opt for the IHOP down at the Brick. We sit and chat while we eat. Time to pay and his card is declined. He runs to the ATM while my and I are sitting there, again declined. Well he gets all flustered and goes off to chat with the manager. Comes outside and tells us we need to go, he was very embarassed. When we get back to my place, he asks if I would mind if he snoozed on my couch for a little bit. I tell him no big deal, snooze away. So and I sit back and watch a movie. Well, later a friend drops by to drop something off and chat. We talk about our plans for the evening and he asks if I would mind if he tagged along to the club. No problem. He even offers to drive. LOL Well, as the day passes he hints at why he is in town early. He is being sent to see the dr. Turns out he had a situation arise with someone under his command. Okay, now getting a little uneasy. He then goes on to ask if I would mind him crashing on my couch for the night since the military peeps won't have a room for him at the motel til Friday. Well being the fool that I am,  i say yes. Well after our evening out, he started getting weird. Sending me texts saying he was thinking about getting me alone. He wanted to kiss me all over. Uh, not!!!! Never have, never will, not in the least bit of a connection. We get to my place and I give him a blanket and a pillow for the couch. He begins to ask if he could maybe share my bed. I tell him ABSOLUTELY not! I have a , and I don't have those kind of feelings for him. Plus I had already called my and told her she was sleeping with me!!!  This shot down those thoughts. So back to the couch he went. He had asked me to set an alarm for him so he could shower and head to the military spot. No problem. When I go to wake him, he acts all lovey dovey. NOT!!!!  amp; I tell him he needs to jump in the shower so he get go. I get on the computer to check emails only to find that he had gotten on to my computer and checked out quite a few porn sites, among other sites. Well in the process he got some worms going. I could not get on. Virus protection had detected NUMEROUS alerts. YEA ME!!!! So after shoving him out the door, I call in some favors to my IT friends. One calls and walks me through getting me back up and running. Well dude shows up around noon to tell me they won't have a room til Friday. Well guess you are SHIT OUT OF LUCK dude~~~~~! Then he makes the mistake of asking me what I am going to fix him for lunch. That sets off my ....  She goes off on a "its not a womans job to fix a man something to eat" "theres a Sonic, BK, and other restaraunts right down the corner".  Well needless to say dude left without me fixing him anything to eat. He ate a MRE. Well then and I decide to go hang out at the lake. Dude begins texting.....r u home yet? r u coming soon? miss u...want u...r u coming yet? When we did get home a neighbor asked me to run her to the store, which was not a problem since I needed to get some stuff myself. Dude called 5x in the store. Well we I got home I told him I had things to do, plans made (had a date, which was none of his business) and had things to do. He asked if he could just stay at my apt, NO! So with grumbles and mumbles he gathers his crap and leaves. Asking if maybe he can come back later when I get home.....NOT! From the time I left for my date at 7 p.m. Thurs. night until 1 a.m. Sat. morning he had called/texted me over 50x!!!! I turned the ringer to silent. Friday the phone calls and texts continued. All this for being a nice person!!!! Well at least my date was a gentleman.  |
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Holy crap! Now THAT's fucked up. Some ppl just don't know limits, or manners for that matter. Sometimes being nice to others attracts creeps and parasites like these, but there's no reason to change cos of some jackoff. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. But keep loving, and thanks for the post 
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6/5/2010 5:36 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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He has serious problems. Be careful. Hope today is better for you.
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6/5/2010 10:06 pm |
I'm sorry, I didnt realize the extent of it. It always bothers me to see someone take advantage of someone else's generosity, it makes those of us that try to be a gentleman look bad. Always here for ya girl. So much more to say but this is not the place. TTYL
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