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So this is summer?  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
7/10/2012 1:21 am
So this is summer?


Hot as hell, storms all over, which have missed me so far. I thought maybe it would be interesting. So far nothing new, that goes sexually too. I have been doing yard work for one friend. Cutting up a tree that fell next to her house durning a recent storm. Just came back from Michigan and spent a day tossing firewood, fixing a swing and installing an AC unit. On the radar is installing two fences, pruning work, painting and guard rail instalation. Thats not even at my place!

So recently one of my favorite things to do has left a bitter taste in my mouth. Seems like all the farther I can go with this group is offical flunky, common worker. Not that I have anything against doing some honest work. Just gets tried that I feel thats all that I will ever get from these people. Mean while others who have rarely lifted a finger seem to get showered with perks, pleasure and respect. So I am thinking of boycotting the local event this year. Let someone else do some work. I harbor no thoughts that this will get everyone to take notice. Some will be too drunk, to self absorbed to even look around. It may dawn on 2 or 3 people. Just enough for a question down the line.

I do love what I do for fun. I work hard at it, try to learn what I can about it then help others to experience it. So for me not to go, is really hard for me. But being used as a door mat is hard too! I have done the dirty work and the hot work for several years now. I see people half my age that have done almost no work get to have all the fun. It is just to much for me to take right now. Maybe backing off for this year will increase my desire for next year. Sometimes you do need a break, maybe this is my time.

UPDATE 17 July 2012
First off I was not talking about sex! I had two friends from on herev ask me that question. Sex is passion but not that passion. This is my other thing I love to do, sorry can not say what that is. So I missed the show. Felt kinda good, of course no body called. Instead I got some of my other stuff done. Maybe I need to try this for the rest or the summer!

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/11/2012 10:56 pm

    Quoting slow_n_easy_007:
    same advice I gave my son today seem fitting here and now ~ ~ ~ be generous with your time but don't let them take advantage of you ~ ~ ~ take care honey
hmmm good point to ponder.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/11/2012 10:55 pm

    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    You are welcome. I know we ask things of you, but most of it is "whenever if ever" stuff. Very rare to we have a critical situation that required your immediate expertise. Plus we know that you are a good drive away, hence why we dont come to you as often as we would like.

    but we love you and appreciate you.
Oh I know and its not you that I am refering to. Its my "hobby". Without going into what it is.


slow_n_easy_007 53F
302 posts
7/10/2012 7:20 pm

same advice I gave my son today seem fitting here and now ~ ~ ~ be generous with your time but don't let them take advantage of you ~ ~ ~ take care honey

Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.
--Benjamin Franklin


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
7/10/2012 6:46 pm

    Quoting reallyready46:
    I guess someone else gets it too! Thanks guys
You are welcome. I know we ask things of you, but most of it is "whenever if ever" stuff. Very rare to we have a critical situation that required your immediate expertise. Plus we know that you are a good drive away, hence why we dont come to you as often as we would like.

but we love you and appreciate you.

Bill and June
Make sure you check out our Senior Sizzle blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/10/2012 10:16 am

    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    Certainly do not blame you there. And sometimes you need to take a break not only for your benefit, but to remind others of all the things you do.
I guess someone else gets it too! Thanks guys


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/10/2012 10:15 am

    Quoting  :

Not sure at this point about leaving for good, just feel maybe I need a break.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/10/2012 10:13 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks,I do appreciate that


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
7/10/2012 3:44 am

Certainly do not blame you there. And sometimes you need to take a break not only for your benefit, but to remind others of all the things you do.

Bill and June
Make sure you check out our Senior Sizzle blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


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