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Ramblings from a middle aged man
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Ramblings from a middle aged man Hello to all. Hope to post some interesting stuff here over time. Guess my first question is what would you like to see? I would like to try to make this a different type of blog. |
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Ass deep in snow and no one to keep me warm. Dam any takers? Well guess I have a few things to try this year. Still have not done my two ladies and me thing. As much as I want to try it, something happens when it seems in my grasp. Would also like to find some young hottie. I must admit, I got a late sexual start. I missed having it with all those 18 to 25 year olds. At the time it really didn't matter. Now I wonder if its as great as people say. I do love the older woman. Specialy one that knows what she wants and is willing to get it and please you along the way.
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Well here I sit thinking about the old year and wondering about the new one. Have been really disappointed on here lately. Have tried to get some conversation going with one group. Plenty of guys throwing in their mind. Very few women. Yet I read from women, I am done no one talks to me, I have not met anyone, etc. In the last two months I have had more than my share of disappointment. I think I can understand why some women do not contact guys. I know there are some, Oh hell a lot of you that are just passing through looking. The ones I just do not understand are the ones that send you a flirt or message, then close their site. Then why did you waste your time? The other ones are those that send you a reply then just go quiet. Did I say something wrong? Tell me just do not leave me hanging. I know. I know it does take all kinds to make the world turn. But this type of behavior from men or women takes sites like this down. I hope that this year women who write that they want to meet. Do so. I hope that I can meet a couple of great ladies here. Hint, hint I am still wishing for my twosome. Here is to wishing all that read this good health, good sex, and a good life in 09.
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Earlier today I watched the snow fall and blow around. Every thing seems to be cooling off. The weather and sex. Rubbing around under the covers. Almost like doing it with the lights off, but you can watch your lovers expressions! As much as I do enjoy seeing my lover, with days getting shorter I feel there is novelty to doing it with the lights out. Mind you not all the time. Just as a change of pace. Been so many thoughts running through my mind lately. Keeping things fresh. Of course with the changing of the year weeks away thoughts of what new things await me next year.
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Well just had a birthday. What can I say another year older. Was thinking about sex stuff the other day. You know old lovers, kinky stuff. Just now getting around to trying out new things. Well new to me.. doing it in a car, watching a porno and doing it, watching others do it live. Still have things I want to try. I remember dropping my pants and showing my dick to a woman that was chasing me. She looked and told me I was to big. At least that got rid of her. Now I look at my dick and think, wow thats to small! lol. Its all how you look at it.
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Recently a national paper had an article about sex addiction. I was able to read a bit, not the whole thing. The premise was that some folks believed that sexual addiction was real. Others thought it was all in ones mind. This got me thinking about this subject. Am I one? I am certain that Senior Sizzle has many people which fall under this. Really had to toss this around. Finally I had to define addict to myself. Thinking back to my old college days. Those parties, those drugs. I had friends who enjoyed doing drugs. And others that did drugs to fit in. My friends in the enjoyment side never forced anyone to do anything they did not want to. I am getting slightly off point here, so the thought is this. They enjoyed what was present when it was present. A few would spend hours and hours searching for drugs. My feelings are if you enjoy yourself and spend some time looking, then do not feel any shame. Hours and hours of searching, every day out to score. You probably have a problem. Then another thought occured to me. Do I control my sex life or does it control me? That sums up everything for me. A simple question with a simple answer. So am I an addict? My feeling are no. I am not trained to even tackle the issue regarding if this addiction is real or not. In many ways isn't sex in our minds? We all find many different things exciting. One persons kink is another persons ho hum. Hope that this has not been to painful. I would love to see comments about this.
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Well we can see. Hope we connect to talk further about this. Thank you for responding.
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Maybe you will be kind enough to invite me to one of these parties if they are not too far from Sandusky? May I bring a bf? Thanks Jane~
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At long last I have had the chance to attend three parties. I guess the biggest surprise has been how organized and well mannered people have been. Not sure what I really expected. One side of me expected maybe a Roman style orgy, with Togas! Another side of me expected every one paired up and using all the furniture, beds and kitchen counter space. The truth, gee I have only been to three of these! Maybe there are parties out there just like I imagine. However my gut tells me that my experiences are probaly normal. Thinking about going to one? Unsure how to start? I put off my desires for way over two years. Ask yourself, why am I going? What do you want? If you are going with the idea of instant sex, think again. First thing there are rules. Ask your host they are there to guide you. You may not get invited to play. Nothing wroung with meeting people and watching. If a stranger came to your door would you just have sex with them, not knowing anything about them? Then for me there was the unsure thing. Am I good enough, big enough, long lasting enough, etc.. It can be a shock. Being around new folks and unfamiliar turf. I was invited to play at my first party. I was not confident enough with myself to really do so. Surprise no one berated me or forced me. This is the joy of Adult consentual sex. Where no means no. And yes means ENJOY! Other things you may want to inquire about. Age limits, yeah there is something to be said about similar ages playing together. I guess in my late 40s I can play with older folks and maybe still get a shot at a young 30ish woman and not feel like I am robbing the cradle. Single people you may want to inquire if you are welcome to play. Single woman will have a easier time with this than single guys. Inquire about the M to F ratio. This may make a difference. So I am glad to have attended. I am looking forward to going to more. Will post more adventures as they happen.
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Thank you milf655! Those are all things that I do every day. Humor and sex just has always seemed to go hand in hand, at least for me. PLease check back often and let me know what you think. Any one else with ideas or comments?
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